I see alot of people post on here because there sad and lonely and want a girlfriend and magically think things will be great when they will get one. I don't really understand why they think that way. I never have had someone go out of there way to try and talk to me or be my friend since adulthood. There is no nice,friendly, enjoyable non family member that exists. It's all use and be used. They want to talk to you because they have something to gain from hanging with you...notice how we have to have attractive attributes to attract friends or people in are daily lives...that is simple because you have to have something to offer them. In a world where love is real and actually exists you wouldn't have to change anything about yourself because they actually would love you for who you are good or bad...and that doesn't really exist. Why do you think a girlfriend would make you happy when there is nobody that makes you happy or there is nobody who treats you nice or goes out of there way to make your day? You really only get that treatment when "you're one of the beautiful people" or have something to offer them. Why do you desire to have anybody around you men or woman when you're never treated good by anybody ever? For things to be desired it should be because they give you pleasant feelings by how they have treated you in the past. Im a lone wolf or hermit so I dont really understand why you think that just because you have someone in your life that all the sudden your life's going to be great when your life is lame and you have men and woman all around you on planet Earth but life continues to be lame even tho other people exist. Are there people that think like me on here who hate company and prefer solitude to company? Why do you desire anybody in your life when you have no good memory of anybody besides maybe family? This question and post is more directed towards angry or sad isolated people who say they want friends or partners but don't have those things.