Hey, as the title says I'm looking to meet an F sub for my first proper relationship.

In regards to my vanilla interests I'm into rather standard stuff, I enjoy regular walks outside even if just to get out of the house for a few hours, regular trips to the cinema, TV and movies at home. I enjoy animation (be that cartoons or anime) and the occasional novel.

For the fun stuff I've been into BDSM for a long time and whike I've yet to be able to indulge in my desires irl I've spent a lot of time thinking about them.

I've always been told I'm a sadist which makes sense given I like to make people suffer/assert a certain amount of control so bonus if you're into that. For example I might want to have control over what you wear for the day (hell if we're alone I might decide you won't be wearing anything except your underwear) or I might decide I want you to dye your hair, not even just a traditional colour but I've found eccentric hair colours like green, blue or purple are quite a turn on for me.

At the same time though I like to think I'm something of a stereotypical romantic so I'll also want to go on traditional dates, show up at your door with some flower's or slow dance around the room together while I Whisper sweet nothings in your ear.

Some might say the contrast between those two sides can be part of the appeal.

Unfortunately I can't travel at this time or host so meeting in public and having more private fun at a hotel room would be our best bet. I'd also like to have a more casual meet up/possibly even see it as a date before things get more intense.

Kinks: Bondage, tickling/hardcore tickle torture (my absolute main kink but we can discuss that in the future), interrogation, sub crying, cnc, orgasm play, pain to skme extent, curious about dripping candle wax, possibly knife play, sensory deprivation, mummification and likely a bunch more I can't name.

Limits: Not really into traditional intercourse at this time or being on the receiving end of anything, Scat, gore, I hate terms like mommy/daddy or dd/LG.

Also don't wanna speak to any drug users.

Anyway thanks for reading this long ramble and if any of it appeals to you feel free to reach out, though only do so if you're 20 or over, I don't have an upper age limit. I'm only staying on Reddit so please don't message just to telll me to add you somewhere else.

If you do reach out please put some effort in and show some enthusiasm, tell me your exact age and what interested you about the post, if you send something boring like a simple "Hey," and nothing more, not only will I know you didn't bother to read the whole thing but I'll assume you're exgrmely boring to talk to and block you.

Have a good day.