Hello. How are you doing? Hope you are doing well and having a good week. Thank you for taking the time to read my post. Appreciate your attention (and apologize in advance for how long this post will be).

Can call me J for now. I'm 36m, from Missouri (in the US). I'm 5'9", brown hair & beard, blue/green eyes, 220lbs (bit of a dadbod I'm working on losing). And I'm looking for someone I can explore more of my dom/daddy side with. I have a bit but wish to explore it more fully.

Outside of kink I'm rather introverted and geeky. Would much prefer a nice evening in with a good book and cup of tea. Mostly read novels. But also enjoy an occasional history or science book. And when the mood strikes, enjoy a bit of poetry as well. (My favorite novel is "The Count of Monte Cristo" by Alexander Dumas. Also really enjoy "Les Miserables" by Victor Hugo, & the short stories of Isak Dinesen.)

Would say I'm pretty geeky. Enjoy fantasy and scifi (moreso scifi). Doctor Who is my biggest fandom, Star Trek a close second. The Expanse is the best scifi show of the last couple decades. Also enjoy gaming (on my laptop some, but mostly on my Switch). Board games are way cooler than video games though.

And now for my kinkyside. I nominally describe myself as a Daddy. I'm not deeply into DDLG (I do find it interesting though), just find "daddy" rather describes the softer side of Domming I enjoy. I would want to make my sub feel safe and cozy (when the world gets too Big I want her to feel safe curling up on my lap). Also enjoy being a bit of cheerleader: enjoy telling her that she can do anything she tries, being there on the sidelines cheering her on to achieve her goals. That said, I do have a much rougher side as well. And I'm looking for someone to explore how those two sides of me, the gentle and the rough, can coexist (I want to be a safe place for my sub, but also enjoy when a woman willingly degrades herself for me).

As for what I am looking for in a sub...primarily someone that enjoys being cheered on and spending cozy nights with her daddy, but also has a masochistic streak. Will say brats are fun and I do enjoy their energy. Also, someone that is open to exploring a wide variety of kinks.

And speaking of kinks, a few of mine are orgasm control (denial/forced orgasm), watersports, impact play, bladder control, pet play, fisting, discreet public play, teasing my sub (love teasing and making my sub wet). My biggest kink though is women's orgasms: there is nothing hotter, sexier than watching/hearing a woman cum. (Hope to give my sub many.)

Anyway, thank you again for taking the time to read this lengthy post. If it sparks your interest, then I hope you'll send a chat. And if it doesn't then I hope you will find your own person to make you happy.

Adieu.