My first time joining this kind of community and figured I'd start by sharing my story.

Wife and I have been together since Freshman year of highschool. She has had undiagnosed issues that finally are getting treated properly. During those untreated years our sex life was almost non-existent. I wanted to fuck and she was no where into it at all. Through the years we just sort of stopped having sex except when we attempted for our first child.

We finally have our kid and her ADHD is diagnosed and she's become normal and my work life balance caused me not wanting to have the boring sex we had. It was a chore.

Eventually a discussion was brought up of 3 ways, couples, etc. I wasn't into that as much but realized she had been watching and reading porn that involved Dom/Sub categories.

We would usually only have sex sessions that would last 10-15 mins, but now we have this daily active Dom/Sub life and we are looking at a lot of rope play, sex furniture, and any toy you can imagine that I can edge her with.

3 days/nights of straight fucking all over the place. We signed up for a lifestyle club because she really wanted to experience that place and cannot wait to parade her around by her collar and just show her off in the playrooms.