Hi. I'm a 41 year old Online only Dom that has been around reddit for about 2 years now. I'm not new to the kink because I've spent my entire life thinking and fantasizing about it (I have a cassette tape of me spanking curious George during playtime lol). I spent a lot of time feeling like a monster for the things I wanted to do to women and it made me a very lonely person. After a bad scare with stage one colon cancer I confided in a friend who encourages me to write about my feelings and urges. I'm a lit teacher so that obviously came out in the form of a short story. After she read it she begged me to put it on reddit for others to read. I was really scared but I did it and she joked that I would probably end up with a sub for posting it. She was kinda right, I ended up with a sub and a groupie that eventually became my longest online slave of a year and a half. I was so green at that time. I had never touched a woman or even been on a date at that point. I still haven't done either of those things, but I was surprised how quickly it all started to click for me. All those fantasies I had turned out to be someone else's too.

Even though I'm an online only Dom I've found ways to make those dynamics feel as real as possible. I look forward to joining this community. I've never really been able to talk to other doms before. If you have any questions about long term online only dynamics please let me know. After 2 years I'm still learning every day but I like to think I've picked up a couple of tricks here and there.

It's nice to meet you all.