Do you ever worry about the line between abuse and dominance?

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As the title says. Sometimes I worry that my SO will look back on me (if we break up) as abusive, even though my intentions all along have been the opposite. The trouble is, In my “traditional” life I’m very loving, giving, sentimental, selfless etc. but when I’m feeling dominant, I demand total obedience and can get pretty riled if I don’t get it. Does anyone else feel this conflict, and do you ever worry that you should just keep your dominant side locked away?

My SO insists that they love and need the dynamic, but I still feel conflicted sometimes. Any thoughts?

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