She still has stuff here. Why she has left it here is beyond me. My therapist & friends think it’s cause it gives her an avenue for exerting control over me and way to bully me.

Yesterday she txt me to demand that I allow her friend come into the house and collect her stuff. I panicked. Lucky I was wasn’t home and couldn’t comply.

I told her no. I wasn’t home and she couldn’t do anything. I told her she wasn’t going to be able to enter my house.

I was shaking a little. I was afraid that she would lose her mind about being told no.

I had already started to gather up her stuff.

I really am waiting for her to do something about being told no