My story short, sweet, and to the point. 9 years of mental, emotional, narcissistic abuse. 6 years I was blindsided and 3 years simply participating in my own abuse... I'm an emapth with a golden heart whom lives by it and let me tell you what it's the most painful experience I think I'll ever have to face within myself. Tonight tho I think the lightbulb finally went off and the heart powered off and let the brain do the work. I finally don't care I mean I care the world what happens to me of course. Honestly that's all I care about call it selfish, call it greed, call it anything you chose, but I seen the difference in him when I kept shutting him down. I finally didn't get emotional whatsoever and simply kept saying IDC. Over and over again. His reaction was priceless now he's packing my stuff and kicking me out. Comical honestly!

Rant over so educate me why narcissist feed off that emotional outbreak another feels and them feel all negative energy btw. Yet when they are starved of your energy cuz the victim simply doesn't care anymore your through?

My opinion is there absolutely twisted really there the ones needing the help yet it's the victim always receiving the help. One twisted cruel game they play and it's sad the victims usually didn't know they were willing participates in there own mishaps.