My HOH has felt like I’ve been skirting my wifely duties, have had a bad attitude, and have not been making responsible choices the whole last week. Last night he gave me a m strong attitude adjustment. After I felt so calm, grounded, and humbled. He had a lot of work to finish for his business and I’m sure he would have preferred to work or relax but he still gave up his precise time to fill my needs and put me back into place. There’s not many people I can share this with irl and I just wanted to spread some positivity about submitting to your husband. Description below for anyone curious.

First he wrote out all the reasons he’s displeased with me and all of the ways I need to do better on his large hanging white board he uses for work. Then he had me lube and sit on a too large dildo suction cupped to the floor that I could only take half of. When I was about 1/3rd of the way down he firmly pushed my body down on it a little lower to stretch my bottom hole a bit more than I would have been willing to of my own volition. After a minute or so he let me get off of that one but because I couldn’t take that one inside fully he put tiger balm on a dildo and I had to sit on that instead while positioned in front of said whiteboard. He left me for several minutes to read/reflect/think about my behavior. Then he took me over his knee where he spanked me for a minute. I was still having a hard time accepting his authority so I wasn’t holding still enough and we had to change positions. Once he was in a position where he had better control he used a cane a few times and a wood paddle. He then used and came in my ass which made me feel really punished and humbled. Also as punishment for speaking disrespectfully and being a brat in my verbal responses recently he came in my mouth.