Due to work circumstances, I had to move out in October. Only 1 town over, 15 minutes away. But I'm struggling to live without my dog and I'm also not sure my family understand.

My dog, Lily, is an absolute sweetheart. So much character - not obedient, but so cheeky that you don't mind. Wouldn't hurt a soul - after an encounter with both a caught magpie and a hedgehog she's still never ever hurt anyone or anything. Greedy as hell, she once ate a 50kg bag of dog food after sneaking in to her previous owner's garage.

Having her around is part of what finally helped me kick my depression - having an animal that unconditionally loved me was so helpful. I'm sure anybody that's suffered with depression knows what a lifeline that can be.

She's there with my mum & sister who love her just as much. But she surely thinks I left her? My family get upset that I miss the dog more than then, but they don't understand that I can't talk to Lily over the phone & tell her how much she is in my heart and on my mind. I have that option with them.

I don't know what to do. I try not to think about it too much, but when I do it makes me think I made a terrible mistake leaving her. It's not like I can sit my dog down and explain all this? She'll never know how much I love her & how much she means to me & that I didn't abandon her.

At a loss atm. Any ideas? I know it's not easy to advise on but I'm hoping some of you have been in a similar situation