Me and my girlfriend recently just got a shepherd mix from the shelter. We’ve had her for about three days and we’ve been trying to get her to sleep on the bed. Every time she sees her skin on the bed she acts as if she wants to get on, but sniffs the bed and quickly turns away me and her every night have been picking her up and putting her on the bed but every time she gets on the bed she has her tail between her legs and doesn’t move, even when we try to get her to climb the stairs to the apartment which our apartment is on the second floor she has her tail between her legs and refuses to go up the stairs if anyone could provide some insight on how to cure these things, or fix these things, that would be the most helpful she is approximately a year and one month old and her name is butter cup