So I have MS, and as such I’ve lost control below my waist. Going to the bathroom, naturally is practically impossible, so I got a colostomy and super pubic catheter. In that aspect my life is better. But since the surgeries I haven’t been physically intimate with anyone. I can only imagine how that would go. Take off my shirt, bag of poo on my stomach. Pants off, tube leading to bag of pee. And the catheter site is irritated from the tube, so there’s always blood and a dressing for it as well as the smell. So I can make out and have clothes on sexy time. But any serious relationship would want to go further, and I don’t know if I’m comfortable. And I can’t imagine being with someone who is. I already have enough hang ups about sex, life decided to make it harder. I’m pretty sure even an escort would say no.