I grew up in foster care. My childhood included each of the groups of child abuse. Yeah, including that one. I spent a lot of yours being less good at social skills and relationships than I should have been because of that, despite being a hopeless romantic and very loving. I used to struggle with being vulnerable, which is pretty common for abuse survivors. But, years of therapy, self work, meditation practice, and just doing the hard things anyway and I'm at a place where I feel like I'm ready for the kind of deep, healthy, stable relationship that younger me never really was ready for. I tend to fall for women who come from equally traumatic backgrounds, with an equal amount of baggage and issues, and in younger me's case that led to two emotionally wounded people being wounded at each other. But I feel like I'm passed that point, and I want to find someone who wants to heal, grow, fall down, get back up, and live, love, and laugh together. I want to love and cherish all of your weird, your quirks, and kiss your every wound and scar and I'd be thrilled if you felt the same way towards me. I want to share in each others hobbies, no matter how weird or how boring, and I want to just be there for each other. I want to stop feeling held down by the past and start using it to lift others up. And I want someone to share that with.

I'm nerdy, sassy, sarcastic, kinky, loving, romantic, and weird. If you're any combination of those things, I'll probably adore you.

Disclaimer. I'm progressive. All people are equal to me and I'm looking for a partnership of equals. Power exchange kinks can be fun and all, and Im happy doing that sort of thing with you, but if we do things like that just know that we're still going to always be equals. Just saying that now to get it out of the way. I'm into a lot of stuff, and I'm comfortable and happy to explore everything that makes you happy, just remember that we'll always share equal footing. That sometimes needs to be said in kink spaces, so that's me saying it.

Also a disclaimer. As someone who may or may not be a little crazy myself I have this habit of really really liking women who are equally crazy. So, if that sounds like you, please do apply. You have no idea how beautiful I'll find your wonderful weirdness. I appreciate you.

Last disclaimer. Yeah, I'm kinky and find that beautiful in a woman as well. My brain is wired such that a womans passion is always beautiful to me, regardless of the kind of passion. But that does include sexual passion and intensity, and I have a habit of seeing slutty as beautiful. I'm not the jealous type. I'm rather fond of slutty women, female pleasure, sloppy seconds, and things like that, and I only really get possessive and jealous of my womans heart, not her body. So you don't need to be like that for me to love you. But if you are, say so, and I'll make sure you're very very happy.