We have been at this for awhile and the Wifey is starting to get frustrated so she is perusing a bit harder. We are in Southern Colorado, east side of the Sangres/Great Sand Dunes (at least at first if we move to fwb/trying poly) and we will return the respect. We are happy to host after a short introduction and making arrangements. While we understand the reluctance to share face photos we will share first and suffer the greater risk so please be prepared to share back or don't bother. If you know about the double dead man's curve coming into town you're the ideal candidate but we are willing to host or travel anywhere in the huge 60-70 mile circle of townships and three small cities on the edge of that circle.

This hookup/first visit will be more along the lines of a traditional threesome but with you taking the lead role. Depending on the mood she may or may not make me watch or relegate me to some other duty such as sucking her toes, she's honestly not even sure what to expect. I have been experienced at this for some time so I will be helping her along at the beginning to set the mood and pace for her but have no doubt, she's an absolute freak once she's started. She has literally had nothing but finger and tongue since last September and she's absolutely thirsty for this. She is demanding hard doggy style and light manhandling from someone with stamina and skill but also much much more. She would like cuddles between the two of us after, maybe hang out some and possibly even an overnight.

If we transition to fwb; she would like a partner who comes and hangs out, helps cook or chills and we have dinner together, go on dates, go out and just have fun, snuggle and watch movies with her in the middle... Though she has made it very clear that the first two weeks she would be begging for sleep overs and sex over and over again. It would eventually progress to a point where she would be willing to engage you alone once she's comfortable. She's not tentative about the situation she just feels inept and we are hoping this will help her relax and enjoy it.

I am charged with vetting potential matches and seeing that they will follow the most basic of rules and meet our wants and needs. She will not tolerate absurdly domineering men, drunks, flakes, picture collectors and people who can't meet but can always meet tomorrow. She wants this like right now and at most by this weekend.

• Dear mods, have posted about this before. Population density, peppered townships and discretion doesn't allow for a specific location but if you live here you know it's one of a few areas all relatively connected together by huge chunks of national forest and BLM land. *