First and foremost, happy holidays. Also thank you for reading this. I tend to pour my heart and soul into these, so I may ramble on a bit. I will try to keep it brief.

At my very core is a desire to give up control and serve a dominant woman. Not only do I find it freeing, but this is what I found makes me the happiest. The key here is what I mean by serve. It is about meeting all of somebody's needs that they want met, and not just their sexual needs (or my own). The relationship I envision is encapsulated by the idea that they get to relax on the couch while I cook dinner and do the dishes.

A few things to know about me:

• I am 6 foot 1 with a skinny build and brown hair flecked with more grey than I would like to admit. I have both NSFW and SFW pictures posted. I am happy to send over face pictures quickly.
• I love to rock climb. Well, bouldering really because heights are scary.
• I am poly. I am not looking for another primary/nesting partner, but I do want this to be an important relationship ideally.
• I play chess in the I might read a book about chess endgames for fun sense of the word. Yep, I am that unabashedly nerdy.
• I love to cook with a bias towards Thai, Chinese, Creole, and Mexican food of late.
• I love to travel and been to over 30 countries.
• I like dynamics with rules that extend beyond the bedroom. They help make me feel connected to a person and to my own submissive nature.
• I think pegging is an underrated sex act that more men should try.
• I have a fair number of other kinks and things I want to explore more of. If you want to know more about those, or my limits, please ask. I don't want to vomit out a list of kinks because, well, I am not looking for a magical kink dispenser and I've already mentioned a couple.
• I have about 20 years of kink experience give or take. I am not overly active in the scene (I find it tends to be overly geared to male dom/female sub) but I am open to exploring more.
• I am fairly successful and driven. I know my worth and I am not some sniveling worm. I view handing over the power I have accumulated as a gift.

About You

• A woman. I am also open to non-binary female at birth people. Sorry gentlemen, but I am straight.
• Lives in NYC. Ideally not Staten Island. Somewhere off the path could work too.
  
• Interesting and passionate about something I don't know much about. I am a firm believer in the notion that you talk to people more than you fuck them in a relationship.
• Domme or a switch. I am not looking for the services of a pro domme.
• Probably best if you are also poly seeing as I have other partners.

If any of this intrigued you, please reach out and tell me a bit about yourself. I rather hear about the vanilla you more than the domme side of things at first. No amount of kink can overcome not clicking on a personal level IMO. Thank you for your time reading this. I look forward to hearing from you.