BDSM has been the foundation of my life for over 20 years now. I'm a member of the local dungeons and community. I volunteer for kinky events from teaching classes to demoing techniques like flogging. I craft many of my own toys and offer some for sale (pics on my profile). I'm active here on Reddit and you can view my history of comments answering questions. I have references throughout the community who are happy to vouch for my skills, safety and character. RACK, clear negotiations and enthusiastic consent are mandatory.

I thrive on power exchange and enjoy shaping a sub into my perfect property. I truly want to control everything about you, though I'll choose where to micro-manage and where to set rules. I prefer a service-oriented sub who truly wants to learn how to make her owner happy - knowing my favorite shirts for a comfy day, how I take my coffee, my favorite sex position, how I like to see her dressed and how to pair her makeup. She probably has a praise kink and thrives on the head pats and good girls for a job well done.

Outside of the power exchange, my interests tend more towards edge play. Spankings and rough sex are great but given free reign you'll find my sadistic style more aligned with Insex, Eric Cain and Device Bondage among others. With some luck you are a masochist who wants to be overstimulated with pain, pleasure, predicaments, fear and mind fucks. Some of my favorites are listed below, but these aren't mandatory. And if I'm missing your favorite kink, please ask - I'm probably into it.

• Impact play (floggers, spanking, whips, canes, etc.)
• Shibari & suspensions
• CNC/rape play/somnophilia
• Breath play (choking, bagging, even waterboarding)
• Humiliation/degradation
• Edging, orgasm control/denial and forced orgasms
• Objectification
• All kinds of bondage (gags, mummification, cages, restraints, etc.)
• Needles & cutting

And because this has been very kink focused so far, a few fun vanilla facts about me:

• Fit and active, I enjoy working out, hiking and keeping a healthy lifestyle. Body picture on my profile
• I love to cook and grill. This holiday season I've made everything from prime rib to sage sausage stuffing to a Canadian bacon/gruyere quiche.
• I enjoy hosting and selected my house with game nights and gatherings in mind.
• Ask me about my board game collection! I've been converting my dining room into a game room and have a new gaming table on order.
• One of the extra bedrooms is now a library, because reading is one of my favorite hobbies. Currently reading through the Shannara books and the Red Rising series.
• DragonCon is one of my mandatory vacations every year.
• Music tastes are wide ranging including rock, metal, EDM, rap, classical and more. This past year I saw Shinedown, Korn, 2Cellos, Three Days Grace and Trans-Siberian Orchestra in concert.

If any of this has caught your interest, send a DM. I'm open to just about any age/body shape/experience level. What's important is a good conversation, mutual attraction and similar interests. I'm confident anything else can be solved together with a bit of hard work.