Good day, and thank you for taking the time to read this ad. I'm glad that the title was enough to pique your interest. You can call me Leon. Before I get into the kinky weeds, I want to give you a small look into who I am. Then, I'll go into greater detail about who I'm looking for, and why I'm looking for them. After that, I'll give you a fantasy, "Day in the Life" scenario. I will conclude with a few screening questions. I will only respond to people who answer ALL questions I leave at the end. I put effort into writing this. Please reciprocate that effort. I'm a 29 year old former Marine who lives in the Pensacola area. I am retired, and have my own home. I have two lovely labs who adore me, and I'm in the process of converting my back yard into a no dig vegetable garden. For the past year, I've dedicated my time to the pursuit of knowledge regarding permaculture, foodscaping, composting, herbalism, and plant-based medicine. Ideally, me and my pack of lovely little submissives will work together, and all contribute to the homestead. We will do what's best for ourselves, our local ecosystems, and our kinky souls. I'm engaged to my live-in submissive (25), and take care of another submissive woman (20) part time. They are both career professionals, and would rather tell you about themselves. I hate being reduced to a left swipe, or a right swipe. I hate being condensed, or categorized, without actually interacting in realspace. I hate the need for hard stances, and good takes. Ideally, you do, too. If nobody will reach out to help us, then we will reach out to help eachother.

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If you are the type of person who wants to just be thrown into a situation, or to throw themselves into the same, then we will probably not be the best fit for one another. I only want to engage with people who have realistic expectations when it comes to their kink, and their relationships.

If you are just dipping your toes into the kinky pool, and trying to learn, then we will probably not be the best fit for one another. I need to know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that you are 100% informed about your own kinks, and why you enjoy them. I only believe in informed, and enthusiastic, consent.

If you are prone to codependency, or need a constant stream of attention, then we will definitely not be the best fit for one another. If you are with me, and my pack, then it is because you truly want to be there- not because you need to be with another person in order to be happy. I won't enable that behavior, and you should avoid anyone who does. They'll only use it to abuse you, and you'll be too emotionally entrenched to rescue yourself. I won't be party to any kind of abuse, or situation that can lead to your exploitation.

You should want the best for yourself. I want to give the best to you. I will hold you accountable, and I expect you to do the same for me. I'll move mountains for me, and mine- but only for me, and mine. I can only have control over myself, and those who choose to give their power to me, in our negotiated dynamic.

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My fiancee is very much into the idea of me being a kind of primal/barbarian chief who is doing his best to break his captive's will and make them his forever. They want me to have power, and treat them as though they're my most precious concubine.

They also seriously love the idea of me having an outlet for my darker impulses. So, ideally, you are slightly more masochistic, and desire a strict patriarchal figure. I'll maintain your schedule, make you maintain our home, organize the pantry, scrub the floors, and take my cock if it hardens when I'm around you. I will do all in my power to ensure that, when you're with me, you'll never know if the hand on the back of your head will stroke your hair, or force you onto your knees and fuck your throat until you gag and spit. When I give hugs, I like to completely envelop you with my long arms and pull you tightly into me. When I hold you tight, I want you to realize just how easily I could break you into pieces if I ever felt like it. When I hold your hand, I want you to know that you couldn't pull away from my grip, even if you wanted to. Whenever I touch you, I want you to understand just how small and weak you are when compared to a predator like myself. I want you to feel safe and secure, yet also trapped: like a canary in a golden cage.

I like to use my size and strength against my subs. To initiate sex by grabbing people by their hair and dragging them to the bedroom. The more they pull away, the more they hurt themselves. To make my partners taste how turned on they are. I like to shove my fingers deep into their pussies, and then force them down their throat To make people assume positions, crawl, and beg for what I give them. Doesn't matter if it's pleasure or pain. If I'm giving it to you, then you will beg for it, accept it, and thank me for it. I like to give firm and rough grips on the arm and wrist that cause bruises, hard slaps to remind brats of their place, and forced free use, no matter when and where.

You may not even be allowed to wear any kind of bottom except for a skirt around me, either. No panties. I want easy access to what's mine. That way, if I get sick of your attitude, and decide that you need correcting, I'll be able to do so with minimal obstruction. If I cum in you, and you decide to waste that cum by letting it spill out, then I'll force you to lick it up If I decide that I want to use you, then it will happen.

Nothing you say, other than your safe word, will stop me, and resistance will only make me hurt you. How badly? That depends on your tolerance for pain, and how hard I have to work to take what I want from you. Good girls, who recognize their place and offer themselves to me when I (or they) desire, will be treated with all of the kindness and softness that I can muster.

If you want an experience that is grounded in passive coercion, and the threat of violence, then the most resistance you will offer is making me force your legs apart. Then, there are those of you who like to fight, and need to be reminded of where they stand. I treat fighters on a case-by-case basis, and escalate based on the severity of their behavior. The more fiercely you resist, the more violent I become. Open hand strikes to the body will escalate to closed fists. Light grips on the neck will escalate to me choking you out and breeding your unconscious body. If you come to, and start up again, then I will happily put you back down. If you desire a truly cruel and violent experience, then you will fight me with every ounce of strength that you have. I want to see how fierce you think you are.

If I have my way, then you'll never feel truly at ease. Even the tightest and most genuine feeling hug could quickly become another free use session. You'll be just a warm fuckdoll who gets to play like she's human when around other non-kinky people. No matter what I do to you, who I give you to, or how much you hate what is happening in the moment, you will recognize that you are at your most beautiful when your makeup is ruined, your body aches, and your holes leak. And still, you will thank me for it.

I am excellent at maintaining a sweet tone and kind smile when I'm punishing someone, or treating them cruelly. You may actually think that you deserve it, even when I'm just hurting you because I want to see you cry. You'll start to overanalyze my body language, and attempt to figure our if there is any malice behind my warm smile and kind eyes.

Every gesture I make towards you, large or small, will case your heart to jump. Will I stroke your face, or will I slap it? Will I run my fingers through your hair, or will I grab a handful and drag you to the backyard so I can spray you with the garden hose? Do I really want to snuggle, or am I waiting for you to relax, just so I can take advantage? I want you to always be on the back foot, and in fear of what I may do to you. But I also want you to always know that I will never push you beyond the limits that we set beforehand. As long as the person I'm with consents 100%, and I don't have any worries about their communication abilities, then the only limits are the ones we agree upon before a session or scene begins. I can only do what you consent to. Anything else is just abuse masquerading as kink.

This all hangs on mutual trust and a desire to have a fulfilling shared experience. Without said trust, there's no hope in maintaining any form of relationship, be it platonic or sexual. Being the trusted someone in control when you're at your most vulnerable is, to me, the most important aspect of being the dominant partner in a power dynamic. After all, if you can't trust me to stop when you say so, if you can't trust me to respect your limits while trying to push your boundaries, or if you can't trust me enough to give your all, then I've failed. I don't expect to gain your trust in one day, one date, or one encounter. I understand that people are different and have different ways to gauge whether or nor someone is trustworthy. So hopefully after we converse and enjoy each other's company enough for a mutual trust to being forming, we can continue to build.

I know that this was a lot to read, but I try to take a kink with so much potential for danger very seriously.

If you're curious: My ever expanding list of kinks includes: CnC/Ravishment, throat fucking, forced bi, face slapping, spanking, forced orgasms, multiple orgasms, anal training, collars, mental conditioning, bruises, choking, takedown play, rope/ribbon bondage, free use, pet training, and (my personal favorite) breeding/creampies.

What do you want the most in a potential relationship? (Play partners, short term, long term, etc)

What kind of dominance best fits your flavor of submission? (Domineering, doting, etc.)

What are your hard/soft limits? What is it about your role that you enjoy the most, and how can I facilitate scenarios that satisfy both of our wants and needs? Thank you for taking the time to read this in its entirety. I sincerely hope that it was good for you.

I hope to hear from you soon, - Leon Elijah Carver