It's very simple. I just want to build a loving relationship where the girl is in charge. I want to focus on her pleasure and needs. I want to serve and worship. But one step at a time. First, let's go have some fun and get to know each other.

A few things to know about me:

• I am 6 foot 1 with a skinny build and brown hair flecked with more grey than I would like to admit. Or just look at my profile if you are a more visual person.
• My favorite Disney movie is Aladdin.
• I love to rock climb. Well, bouldering really because heights are scary.
• I am told I give great massages by amateur standards.
• I have strong views on the use of the Oxford comma. I am for it.
• I am poly. I am not looking for another primary/nesting partner, but I do want this to be an important relationship.
• I play chess in the I might read a book about chess endgames for fun sense of the word. Yep, I am that unabashedly nerdy.
• I love to cook with a bias towards Thai, Chinese, Creole, and Mexican food of late.
• I do dishes unprovoked.
• In of world of boxers or briefs, I prefer fun jockstraps.
• I am on team dog. I regret this fact when the dog wants to walk forever in the winter.
• My adult beverage of choice is beer. I love going to new breweries.
• I like dynamics with rules that extend beyond the bedroom. Not a must have, but it is nice.
• The last Netflix show I binge watched was Wednesday. I enjoyed it.
• I play the guitar, much to the chagrin of the people around me because I am terrible.
• I love to travel. I rather go to Mexico City than Cancun.
• I don't smoke. I have no problem with my partner smoking.
• I think pegging is an underrated sex act that more men should try.
• I vote in off cycle primary elections.
• My idea of fun is to go to far flung parts of the city to eat interesting food.
• I am a sports fan. Mostly football and soccer. Some basketball mixed in too.
• I have a fair number of kinks. If you want to know more about those, please ask. I don't want to vomit out a list of kinks because, well, I am not looking for a magical kink dispenser and I've already mentioned a couple.
• I have about 20 years of kinky experience give or take.
• I probably should go to more munches than I do.
• I prefer coffee over tea. I drink it black. I dream about serving women tea though.
• I love spicy food.
• I've been known to hide under blankets during scary movies.
• My favorite super hero as a kid was Wonder Woman. Somehow, nobody who knows me is surprised by this.

About You

• A woman. I am also open to non-binary female at birth people. Sorry gentlemen, but I am straight.
• Lives in NYC. Ideally not Staten Island. Somewhere off the path could work too.
  
• Doesn't have a pet spider.
• Interesting and passionate about something I don't know much about. I am a firm believer in the notion that you talk to people more than you fuck them in a relationship.
• Interested in more than just a one night stand.
• Domme or a switch.
• Probably best if you are also poly seeing as I have other partners.

If any of this intrigued you, please reach out and tell me a bit about yourself.