This post is always open, until I take it down. I'll edit the message at the top to CLOSED if I'm no longer looking, so DM even if you see this months later!
What I'm Looking For
Hi, I'm Seraph. I'm an experienced dom, looking for a consistent partner that can be my sub. I'm looking for someone that I can hang out with, and we can also get busy together. Be confident; don't be afraid to reach out and chat with me! I love to figure things out, plan and accommodate, so we can make something that works for the both of us.
About Me
In case you' like to know more about me, I'm a third year university student, taking a creative type degree. I'm an amateur writer, and hope to gain enough experience to publish one day. I'm into all sorts of music, and listen to every genre; if you like sharing music, I'm your person! I'm also into D&D and all sorts of related things, as well as a good amount of video games. I'd love to chat with you more, and get to know you!
I've got long hair, am 5'10" and am 215 pounds. I have a small amount of extra weight on me, but not very much. I sometimes have facial hair, but if that's not a thing you like, then I'll simply keep myself cleanshaven.
Also, I have the body hair of a bear, so you must be okay with that.
I'm bisexual, and though I present exceedingly masculine (having a beard, commonly wearing jeans and band tees), I consider myself agender. This means that I'm apathetic to identifying with a specific gender. I'm just myself.
That being said, masculine terms of endearment/authority certainly work well.
If you'd like to know specific kinks, please DM me; I have a kinkchart that I can share with you. In brief, I enjoy bringing others pleasure while in a dominant role. I enjoy praising you, and softly degrading you at the same time.
You
I'm looking for a sub who knows what she wants. I'm not looking for someone to mold to my desires, but someone I can work with to make something that works for the both of us.
You must be clear about what you want. Outright statements are always appreciated more than hinting! :)
You must be 18-28 in age; I am not okay with any age gap larger.
If you're cis, that's okay. If you're nonbinary, genderfluid, etc., that's perfectly okay! I'm queer myself.
I'd like to be friends with you outside of our sexual relationship, so text me anytime! Don't feel like you must only speak to me when we're going to engage in play.
Logistics and Safety
I do a mix of soft domming and hard domming, and we can discuss what would be the best mix for you. I'm very open to discussions about boundaries, logistics, and accommodating your kinks.
I will never ignore a safe word, will always do proper aftercare with you, and will consistently check in mid-scene using the light-system.
(For those that do not know: You are asked a colour, or you can say a colour at any time. Green = Keep going, please. Yellow = this is okay, but no further than this. Orange = Slow down, go lighter, ease up. Too much. Red = Stop, immediately. We are over right now, and aftercare is necessary right now.)
Clear communication is essential in this; I cannot assume that you are okay, and cannot read your mind if something is wrong.
Limits
DD/LG, Bodily Waste, and Feet are my hard limits. No matter what, I will not do these**.
Everything else should be fair game; if you like something that I realize I don't, I will tell you, as I expect you to do with me. Consent is key in any sort of sexual relationship.
If You're Interested
Send me a photo, your age, name (if you like), a few major kinks, and some non-sexual details about yourself. I look forward to meeting you!
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