So I will try to keep this simple. I am a big dude—a dad with a dad bod, and probably then some, broad shouldered, short brown hair, goatee, nice looking teeth… My wife tells me I still look youthful, though the increasingly salt and pepper hair would beg to differ.

But this isn’t about looks. It’s about mental imagery. Yours, I mean. It’s also about giving you a genuine sense of who I am, because before I get into the stuff about taking absolute, total, unquestioned control of every aspect of your life I can get my hands on, it’s important that you think me likable and engaging, because I’m not looking for some one night, one-off kind of thing.

So here’s me. I am a writer at heart, and trying to become one in life. I am currently obsessed with various erotic fiction projects and am looking to turn it into something of a side hustle. There’s a sample of something I wrote pinned on my profile, so feel free to look. And yeah, those are the kind of writing skills I intend to use to turn you into a wet, melted mess.

I’m intelligent. I like to talk philosophy and the state of the world and so on. I am a liberal. I would consider Kurt Vonnegut my favorite author, but I am currently reading Truman Capote and recently read Ray Bradbury’s Fahrenheit 451 for the first time in my life. I was a 90s grunge kid who likes rock and classical and is currently obsessed with The Warning. I can get a little deep, and sometimes I write a little too much for my own good. I am bipolar, so my moods can be a bit quirky… I probably write my best smut when I am in a heightened state; in cooler moods I get a little more philosophical about sex. I’m not ALWAYS in the mood to be dirty, but most of the time, it isn’t far from the surface. I’m pretty much a horndog.

Oh yeah. About the wife…

She is an amazing woman who not only watches me chat but enjoys it. So be aware she’s reading what you write. And if you’re into it, and she’s in the mood for it, she might just come to play with us from time to time. So there’s that.

So, you don’t have to worry about me going in any sort of romantic direction, because I’ve got that covered. That said, it ought to be obvious by now I’m looking for more than smut. I want someone I can legitimately call a friend, and talk about anything with… Someone who is fun and interesting and engaging whether sex is the first thing on my mind or not.

Now, as to what you want from ME…

You are the type of woman who enjoys the fantasy of losing control. You want someone who will open up a nice rabbit hole for you to fall down and relax in, and you really want him to feel like your dom… You want to sense his presence and feel his influence even when he’s not around. So in addition to surrendering your fantasies, you want to give up control of your touching, teasing, orgasms, pornography, and anything else that sinks you deeper into that sense of being under someone else’s control, and you want the little tasks and rituals that regularly remind you of the situation you’re in. Of course, you won’t give that control to someone who isn’t worth it, so you need him to engage you in a more significant way than just writing up fantasies and giving you tasks to complete. In which case, you feel like you’ve stumbled upon a pretty good find.

There are all sorts of things I like, and it isn’t necessary for you to like all of them. The connection thing is more important to me than anything else. But if you check some of the following boxes, or feel a willingness to push some limits for the right dom, that’s a plus.

I like mind control, for one, and fantasize about it all the time. I like to roleplay it and emulate it in the real-life side of being dominant. I like playing around with ideas of domestic servitude and worship. I like to praise more than punish, but I will spank the fuck out of you when I’m in the mood, slap your tits, spit, occasionally restrain, and so on. I also like girls who are bi and willing to please my wife.

I have a somewhat-less-than-mild obsession with bukakke and cumplay, so if you’re unafraid of semen, that’s good. I’m also into seeing a lot of spit on your body, so I guess it’s fair to say I’m a pretty dirty boy. I also love to eat pussy, so keep it nice and wet and spread so I can fill you up with fantasies about having every last bit of taste sucked out of that peach of yours.

There are probably other things, but I figure that’s enough for you to decide if you want to check out my profile and hit that little chat button.