Hello Reader,

I am a 41yo finance executive based on the east coast who travels to SF very regularly for work, at least monthly in 4-5 day stints with some weekend stayovers. I will next be in town Nov 30 to Dec 4. I come often enough that I'm looking for local companionship. I set my own travel schedule and have a lot of flexibility.

I am tall (6ft3), handsome, sane, and respectful of your time and your boundaries. Drug / disease / drama free (420 ok). I consider myself easy to talk to and get along with.

I'm looking for someone local to explore with - someone who'll join me for a hike, take-out lunch in the park, or a stroll through a museum or farmer's market. Someone who will join me for a cocktail or dinner. I'm looking to build a connection, a flirty friendship. I want to build playful tension during the day and release it explosively when the time is right.

I enjoy slow-burning play that ebbs and flows. My partner's pleasure is super important to me and I like creating a safe space where likeminded people can explore. I am very sex-positive and kink friendly, a firm believer that whatever happens between consenting adults is fair play. Kink is great, vanilla is great too. It's more about the connection than the action itself but you'll find me to be judgment and shame-free so please, don't be shy to share what you enjoy. If you're a fan of aftercare - a soft touch, flowing massage, and lots of headscratchies after a playdate, I'm your guy.

Outside the bedroom, my hobbies include collecting rare whiskies & bourbons, spending time in the kitchen, and reading. I love a warm coffee on a cold, quiet day. I love going for a walk when there's no one around. I also love going out and finding new restaurants and bars.

I don't know if I am what you're looking for but I hope to be. If any of the above sounds compelling, turn that little chat-box red and let's see what happens. Let me know what caught your eye and what you're looking for.