About me, I am 35, male, white, single, in decent shape, bald with long hair and a beard. I am seeking a young woman, preferably between the ages of 21 and 30, but it's flexible, as long as you're over 18. You must consider yourself to be in good physical shape, and it helps a lot if you are arrogant/superior irl but crave someone to treat you badly for fun. The attractiveness matters on my end, not just because its shallow and predictable, but because it fits my kink of degrading those that justifiably shouldn't deserve it. I'm talking blatant irony and contradictions for the sake of making it extra hot. Like maybe you are really shy, so I start calling you an obnoxious whore, or really skinny, and I remind you of what a gluttonous fatass you are. Maybe you are just in control of your life and find it so boring that you need to yield it all away to someone who's gonna treat you with cruelty and sexual greed. Either way, you've come to the right place. Or you haven't, in which case you're the dumbass that's still reading.

If this is online, then we will enjoy a multitude of cruel tasks and roleplays. Roleplaying requires literacy, so don't be a lazy/stupid writer. If this is irl, we can see how we hit it off online and then explore the wonderful world of degradation together. I have so many wonderfully cruel and entertaining ideas, but none of the desire to seek people with much effort. Simply put, this doesn't matter that much to me. It is a fun diversion meant to be impersonal and very sexual. I'm not saying it's impossible for there to be a spark of something more, but I'm not seeking it either. So I'll keep an open mind if you will.

Anyway, that's about it. I like the more intellectual side of sexual sadism, so I prefer subtle mind games and torments, the kind that worm into your head and just take over. I am an aspiring therapist with a very dark sense of humor and a taste for all things gothic. I am also 420 friendly, should it matter. All these things factor in somehow. I like getting in people's heads, both to help and to torment, although seperately. Ideally I would like to form a bond with my degradee that is akin to friendship. My old saying goes "I have to respect you before I can degrade you", and it's true. You aren't just a faceless profile, you're a person with feelings, as am I. So I want to be there to help and comfort you when you need it to. Call it a very practiced good cop bad cop routine. If this intrigues you, then I have no more to say.

I await your reply with complacent callousness.

James aka sir