Hello females of central Texas :)

Hot husband here, looking to date women who aren't my wife :)

We have been married for 17 years. My wife and I have recently been more thoroughly enjoying the lifestyle. She has been actively dating and having a wonderful time.

I have had lots of fun helping with selecting and screening male and female candidates for her.

I am now beginning to focus more on my own enjoyment and dating to know some other partners.

I would be looking to play separately from my wife (unless you are OK with her watching/participating). The three of us would meet up and get to know each other a bit before you/I started our solo relationship.

I can host, or can come to you, as your comfortable.

What I am looking for / open to:

• Cis females who are single/casually dating/married/LTR. Happy to help "keep you warm" while you are looking for your primary partner. Not opposed to being an affair partner or helping you re-kindle your marriage.
• Are you happy being single? Do you prioritize friends/career over dating, but would like to have someone to cuddle/have fun times with but no time for a serious/"proper" relationship? Are you seeking a discrete, reliable friend/play partner who isn't going to blow up your phone or be "clingy" and is fully understanding of busy schedules/complex situations?
• Have you had a horrible experience on the dating apps and maybe aren't on them at all?
• Do you want someone who isn't sexually thirsty, but is happy to drink whenever you offer?
• Are you highly intelligent/driven? Do you enjoy deeply intelligent conversation and discussing complex topics in depth?
• Are you kind? There is a difference between nice and kind. :) I want kind people only please :)
• Are you a dog owner? I am very allergic to cats and I don't like them, they don't like me. I have three dogs and they will have to approve of you :)
• Are you truly interested in cuddling/going out for coffee/watching documentaries on netflix/listening to awesome podcasts/going dancing? I want a friend that I also have sex with. While I am not opposed to a more purely sexual relationship , I would prefer a 70/30 or so friend/benefits ratio.
• Do you have sexual scenarios/fantasies that you want to explore, but wouldn't want to with a "real" partner? (dom/sub, wide range of kinks/scenarios, roleplay, CNC etc). I'm extremely open sexually and always happy to explore. I also really enjoy "vanilla" sex to :) I am very into giving oral and can easily do that for an hour or more. .

I have been meeting many women organically, and I've met several women which meet the above criteria. However it's been difficult to broach the subject of ENM/lifestyle/"married but available". Those I have broached it with, haven't been open to dating me (but would date me if I was single).

DMs open! Send a few sentences about what you are seeking.