Hello! I am a single bottom who wants to meet a single top man IRL. IRL stands for In Real Life, as in not online only.

In the past, people dated. We would meet someone, either in-person or by placing a personal ad or a blind date set up by a friend. "Working" girls and men kept pretty much to street corners and other dingy places, when a man went there, everyone knew what that man wanted. Today, most of the posts you read are vague, you have to guess what a Redditor REALLY wants... and in most cases it is a man's walletttt- I am no one's ATM machine! Yes, some words I spell incorrectly on purpose, so they do not get flaggeddddd.

I want to meet someone to share some fun times with in-person, not online-only. So, you must live close to me in Oakhurst or Bass Lake or Coarsegold or any of the tiny towns nearby. You are single, like I am. I have no interest in the polyyyy lifestyle and married cheaters have too much drama. Let's you and I start out simply, hanging out together in person, having fun together with no worries, no strings attached. Look, meeting in-person after getting acquainted in a DM is not as awful as it looks. Some have called this "creepyyy", but what it is alternative? Hanging out in some bar waiting to pick up some stranger you know nothing about? In the past, people have used the Covid pandemic as an excuse for not meeting in-person... that is all over now. We are vaccinated and boosted and tested and as safe as we were before.

You should understand that all I do here has the goal of meeting someone new and starting something fresh and exciting. The more I post, the more people I interest, and the better chance of getting a serious reply from someone who really does want a meetup for FUN and not for moneeey! You might think I am a "bed-hopper" looking for thrills with as many people as I can... but in reality, I have not been with anyone for over 2 years now and that is a genuine truth. I believe in genuine truths; you don't get many genuine truths from the people using the Fresno subreddits or the Central Valley subreddits. Here is another genuine truth: when I do find someone new, I stick with that person for as long as the fun is real and good... I believe in the value of loyalty, fidelity and monogamy.

Interested? Want to know more about me? Instead of public comments, I want to keep this private so please use Reddit DMs or PMs only. Let's get acquainted in our chat, ask questions, compare thoughts and opinions and then make plans to meet in-person. Trust? Like Ringo Starr used to sing, " I don't ask for much, I only want trust, and you know it don't come easy. And this love of mine keeps growin' all the time, and you know it just ain't easy. Open up your heart, let's come together. Use a little love and we will make it work out better."