I'm 41 and semi-retired from the military (25 years of service) living my dream life near the ocean...except I have little to no sexual satisfaction/release. Being in the military and doing multiple deployments and then coast guard flying shift work at home has caused my partner and I over 10 years to drift apart sexually. I don't want to drone on about 'poor me' lol (seriously haven't had a bj in 6 years lol) however wanted to provide some background. If we get to further chatting I'm an open book and will be happy to discuss pretty much anything and everything. Who am I? I like to think I'm funny at times and a serious listener when the time counts. I like to be sensual and I love to tease. I'm happy-go-lucky most of the time and annoy people by almost never getting angry. I try to stay on shape but I'll be honest I don't have a 6 pack. I am typically very well manicured and trimmed. I work outside a lot on my property (cut, haul, and split wood, shoveling, archery, etc.). I play guitar and sing (not well) and it's mostly Willy Nelson, Rosanne Cash, Eddie Vedder, etc). Again, happy to provide a picture via PM for those who are interested. (I don't demand a picture in return to start chatting but I won't complain if I get one back lol). I'm under 6 food, 205 lbs, have a large chest and beard with streaks of natural gray. I'm a very open person and would appreciate the same. I'm also very fetish friendly and will never judge people for those sexual preferences. What and who I'm searching for. I'm looking for someone to chat regularly (daily or semi-daily) with about exciting things in my day to ...well...the more spicy bits of my day. I'm happy to exchange pictures or video but hopefully it's a in the moment thing and I'm not one to just toss out dick pics unless they're actually welcome and wanted lol. I don't want to say looks aren't important, there hopefully has to be some attraction. However whar I really enjoy is someone who is generally positive, chatty, comfortable, funny, and most of all nice. I'm not looking for multiple women to chat with, just one quality woman whom I can hopefully make her day, make her smile, and possibly...well...let your imagination flow and we'll see :) Well, if you've made it this far I'm hoping you're at least titlated to check me out. Send me a DM. James