This is quite a lot for me because I usually just look at these ads and never do anything. However, I am at a point in my life where I am seriously looking for a partner who is interested in the D/s lifestyle in the same way that I am.

I am currently located in Connecticut, I have a government job, so while I am willing to relocate, this is also something that should be taken into consideration.

I am 23 and a proud plant and animal mom. I grew up in an Afro-Caribbean household. I'm 5'6 and a complete and utter nerd for everything anime related. I like to read and I dabble in a bit of writing.

My ideal ideal partner would be anywhere from the ages of 25-35. Someone who has the emotional intelligence to hold a conversation outside of just sex and our dynamic. I don't really have a height preference, I just like my my men to be taller than me while I wear heels. I want someone who isn't afraid of a woman who speaks her mind, because while I may be submissive, I have a no problem letting my needs be known.

However, I will note that I'm not looking for someone to control me and every aspect of my life. Although I may be submissive in this dynamic, I am looking to be possessed, not owned. Hope that makes sense. I have a life and goals outside of our relationship and I will need respect in that regard if you want respect in your own regard.

I will not get into kinks here because I do not believe that the whole subreddit needs that information.

Ideally, I would like to meet someone close to where I live; yet, seeing as I do not plan on spending much more time living in the state, I am not opposed to meeting someone from elsewhere.

I have been single for quite some time and I view myself as very traditional when it comes to relationship roles. l am looking for someone I can build with and possibly start a family with. Someone who is also alright with me taking the time to get to know them before expecting me to uproot my life and my pets (I'm sorry they are non-negotiable). With this lifestyle there is nothing more important than trust and patience, it's just abou finding the right person.

I will ask that if you message me, please be respectful. I am not a child or your sub just because you sent me a message.