Hi! I'm 41 and live in the Toronto area in Canada. I'm here looking for friendly, naughty, connections, whether local or online. I'm married, in an open marriage, and my wife knows I'm here looking. We draw the line at falling in love with others, but there's a lot of room left to make strong friendships, have deep conversations, and share all kinds of pleasure.

I'm open, love to laugh and make others laugh, intelligent, positive, and place the highest value on consent, honesty, and respect.

I have a lot of time to myself, especially later in the evenings, and can usually message a bit during the day, so if you can too, that's a plus and a good way to get to know each other. I do of course have times where I need to focus on offline life, and expect you will too. I don't expect to be the only person you're involved with and I don't care about your relationship status, as long as any partners you have know that you're not exclusive.

I write software for a living and spend my free time doing things like board games, trivia, tabletop RPGs, going to museums, and video games. Music is really important to me; I listen to a ton, play piano and keyboards, and get out to as many live shows as I can. My tastes go to less popular genres like film scores, modern jazz, and progressive rock, but there's something to love in everything! I'm an introvert who loves deep conversation, and one of the most exciting things in life is variety, especially getting to know someone who might not have the same interests as me.

When it comes to sex, I'm sex-positive, body-positive, a switch, and moderately kinky. I'm open to trying nearly anything and love variety, and like to see my partner experience pleasure. If you're a long distance from me, it's a big plus if you're open to something more interactive than typing and sharing pictures (e.g. phone sex or using webcams). I have a fairly high sex drive and believe it's best when pleasure is shared with others. If we talk and find out we're best as friends but not lovers, that's still a big win! But, please don't message if you're not readily looking for someone to orgasm with as well as talk to.

About you: what matters most to me is that we have a good connection and that you're at least 18. Beyond that, your age doesn't matter; what matters is you, me, and how we fit together. An intelligent, flirty, detailed mind is my biggest turnon. I'm a sucker for a kind face and nice smile. Beyond that, things like race and appearance don't matter to me; I'm open to anyone.

Reddit chat is pretty bad, so it's nice to move elsewhere before long, but send me a message or chat if you're interested. I'm open to share SFW pictures early on too.

Good luck in your search, and thanks for taking the time to read this!