(Note: I posted this before, but the resulting relationship fell through. Feel free to message me again even if you messaged me before! Also, apologies if I don't wind up getting back to you. I'm really bad about that.)

Alt title: opens trench coat Hey, kid, you wanna buy some affection?

Alt alt title: The world is ending, wanna bang?

About me: I'm a (very) inexperienced domme on the hunt for someone to shower with praise and attention. Here's a picture of me so you can get an idea of my body type. Please don't message me if you find me unattractive. As for my personality, I'm a fiery smartass who nevertheless is very loving and caring. If something is making you sad, I'll swaddle you in blankets and offer to kick its ass for you, be it a person, thing, or concept. I will angrily shout at you to eat and sleep and hydrate because I care about you, dammit. I'm a dumb nerd who loves dumb nerd shit like books, video games, sci-fi, fantasy, anime, metal music, shitposting, and animals. I'm pursuing a degree in computer science. In my spare time, I write, crochet, and do archery (though I struggle to be consistent with any of my hobbies). I'm also a highly political person who regularly attends protests. I don't smoke or drink, though I do enjoy weed frequently. I'm a vegetarian, but don't worry--I won't try to convert you if you're not one.

I have severe depression, anxiety, and ADHD, and I'm just beginning to get over a really horrible breakup. I know that's kind of a lot, so I understand if it's a dealbreaker, but I'm working on it. I'm in therapy and on medication. Some days are better than others.

Another note about me: I can be confident, flirtatious, and dominant, but I do have self-esteem issues that get in the way of that sometimes. For example, I have trouble messaging people first because I'm always convinced I'm bothering you. So I will need some encouragement sometimes. I'm only human and can't always be perfectly dominant.

If you want a glimpse of my personality, PM me and I'll give you my real reddit username. Fair warning, though, it's mostly me picking fights with people over politics.

As for my kinks, I'm relatively vanilla. I just like being in charge. Heavy on the "gentle" part of gentle femdom. I really just want to ravish you, drown you in affection, and maybe tie you up a little bit. Here's some kinks/actions and my stance on them:

Things I like: giving praise; orgasm delay/denial/control; riding/being on top; light bondage; blindfolds; toys; overstimulation; teasing; being called miss/mistress/ma'am

Things I'm not specifically into, but am willing to do for a partner: being called mommy/daddy; pegging/anal (you receiving); humiliation; feminization; light pain; roleplay; heavy bondage; petplay; consensual non-consent; chastity

Not my jam, sorry: serious pain; watersports; scat; blood; permanent harm/scarification; diapers/bathroom control; anal (me receiving)

That said, I'll try most things once. I get off on getting you off. If you're really into, I don't know, inflatable nuns or something, I'll at least give it a go for the sake of pleasing you.

Now, about YOU: You are approximately 21-31 years old and live in the PNW (I might be willing to waive this requirement for the right person, but you'll have to relocate to me). You get along with my two cats and preferably like dogs too. You don't smoke (I have asthma, sorry). You never want children. (I am 100% serious about that. NEVER. No adopting, nothing.) You don't mind someone who's a little awkward and inexperienced. You're down with my nerdy interests, and preferably share some of them. You don't regularly engage in hardcore drugs like heroin and cocaine. Politically, you are left of center; you don't have to agree with me on everything, but you have to be down with having a socialist girlfriend who occasionally dons all black and goes out to fight the cops. You're vaccinated or have a medical reason not to be (bonus points if you're still masking up). You are patient with my mental illness (within reason) and don't judge me for seeking treatment. You don't mind being gently teased/bullied/argued with as a form of affection (though I'll tone it down if necessary; I try to be gentle with people). You are not threatened by my bisexuality. You aren't going to ghost me (please, I can't handle that right now).

In short, I receive: a sub. You receive: my undying affection. Hit me up if that exchange appeals to you. ;)

Please put the word "banana" somewhere in your message if you've read this far. I know this is a long post, but all of it is important.

I often forget to check new reddit, so I'm more likely to see a PM than a chat.