Hi there. I'm a 40 year old man living near the Cape. Im just starting the process of divorce with my wife. Maybe I'm starting to look too soon but I'm lonely. I've been in a dead bedroom situation for a number of years. I'll be moving out before the end of the year. I'm looking for someone to talk with, get to know, be real and honest with and share my dirty thoughts and kinks with.

I'm 6ft and 195lbs...dad bod. Short beard. Brown hair. Greying chin. Outside of kink I like hiking, walking on the beach, talking the scenic road over the highway, playing video games(mostly single player). I like to be playful and joke around. I like trying to new things especially good food and craft beer. I enjoy shows and movies with anything marvel. Kind of a nerd or geek. I've watched a ton of educational shows about animals and love learning about science or the way things work.

Looking for a LTR with a female up to about 45. Another parent is ideal but not required. I would loved for this girl to be funny, sweet, smart, and can take life as it comes and can joke around. Similar interests are a plus. A positive personality is something I very much need. I like to also please and I'm not here just to get my cock off. I love to tease and foreplay for hours would be a dream. Teasing all day would be fantastic on both sides.

I have a lot of kinks that I've dabbled in over the years. My largest one is hypnosis. It's this kink I've had since I was a teen. And if you respond to this either have experience with it or be open to it. I'm not saying I'm a master hypnotist but I would very much enjoy that incorporation. Other kinks include freeuse. Wardrobe control. Objectification. Some humiliation. Exhibitionism. Orgasm control. Light bondage. Dirty whispers in your ear... Calling you good girl or slut.

I'm looking for someone real. Someone honest. Someone where we can be talking one minute about our work, the next about sex, and then back to movies. I'm looking for flow. And I want to have fun with you...whoever you are. Hopefully you are in Massachusetts and close by. Be open to picture sharing and video....this goes both ways. I'm real. I expect the same. Don't ghost. Be kind. Message me and see. DMs or Chat work. Put "For real life" in the message so I know you read this!