I'm looking for my Forever Princess, my Kitten, my person to come home to and to grow with.

Sexual chemistry is an important aspect of a successful relationship, so it can be helpful to start with that aspect, and then talk about everything else, as opposed to leaving this for last. Hence why I am here.

In the end, what I am primarily looking for is a long-term, forever relationship, with a partner that I trust and love, as they do in reverse. A relationship that happens to have D/s aspects. I am NOT looking for a relationship with an underlying power discrepancy, because they will often fail in the end. I want my partner to feel like an equal, always able to speak up and be a driving force, even if collars and leashes happen to be involved in the bedroom (or public).

I hesitate to talk about kinks, because I feel that each couple develops their own unique identity, but I'll provide some things I generally enjoy, so we know if we're in the same ballpark. I'm a big fan of collaring my special person, and having collars for private and public use. I also enjoy some light degradation. I'm a big fan of cute little skirts and dresses, and helping my princess pick out her outfits sometimes, doing online shopping together to find new things to wear. I have enjoyed the title "Daddy", because it makes my heart melt coming from my Princess. Whispering things we'll do once we get home, when we're out and about.

These things are somewhere between "only in the bedroom", and "total power exchange". More like a personality of the relationship. And as I said, each couple is unique, and other things get added or subtracted as appropriate. I enjoy trying new things that we together come up with, there's nothing more exciting than my partner happily skipping over to me and saying, "Hey! I was thinking...what do you think about trying..."

Some things I do not enjoy? I am not really interested in Age Regression, or any of the things that can sometimes come with that. I also do not enjoy all the standard stuff that is always listed here.

Mutual physical attraction is important. We should strive to trade pictures as soon as we think it's appropriate. I'm a 36 year old Caucasian male, 6'2, 200 pounds. I don't have a hard-and-fast preference for my partner, but I generally find more attraction towards people on the slim/fit/average/curvy part of the spectrum.

Having common interests is also really important. We should discuss this in more detail in private, but I'll give some general areas of interest: MUST LOVE DOGS, sci-fi/fantasy, board/video games, lots of tv shows/movies, restaurants/local events, and lots of cuddling.

I'm not looking for something long-distance. I'm looking for someone where we can spend a lot of time together early on, getting to know each other, seeing if we have compatibility. And looking towards moving in together whenever we jointly decide it makes sense and feels right.

If you've read all that, and find yourself thinking that this may be what you are looking for as well, then send me a message and let's have a conversation.