I'll start with a bit about myself. I'm 20 years old, I come from Manchester, England, but I'm currently in New York studying. I'll be back in Britain for the long-term in a few months. I'm not 100% against meeting people off here, but if that's what you're absolutely looking for, I'm probably not right for you.
My main intention here is really, quite simply, to have an honest discussion about sexual experiences and preferences. You just can't have that kind of openness with a person face-to-face unless you know each other quite well, if at all, and I'm just interested in hearing others' perspectives on the matter without the usual social hindrances to honesty. I'll say that I have a fair amount of experience (though I may often come across more of the quiet and shy type), and, to be completely honest, I'm not interested in using reddit to substitute for a lack of real-life excitement. Ideally, I'm looking for someone who isn't in that situation either. Really, I'm looking for the kind of interesting conversation that's only possible with strangers.
Since I know it'll matter to a lot of people: I'm about 5'6, fit, with blonde brown hair and blue eyes. I'm fine with any physical appearance, age, and gender, but I ask that you be capable of writing coherently, and open enough to have interesting conversation. Hopefully you'll find me interesting as well! Ideally, I would also hope that you have a certain amount of sexual experience, or it might be difficult for us to get very far in a conversation on the topic.
As a starter, here's random thing that's been on my mind recently: has tickling ever played a role in your interactions with partners (whether short or long-term)? I don't mean tickling in the bedroom, I mean more of a laughter, all-out tickling. I tend to go for more of the dominant type of guy, and it's an example of an early sign of dominance that shows me if a guy's dominant before we ever even get together. If he likes being "in charge", there's a very high chance he'll tickle me. It's one of the strangest mixtures between affection and aggression. Is this something you identify with? Or maybe, is this something you get done to you? Anyway, I meant it as an example of the hidden dynamics of intimate relationships. I suppose I'm also interested in these kinds of things because I'm naturally quite submissive. Of course, I'm also open to discussing sex itself and the cruder side of things, but hopefully as part of a broader discussion. One more thing: I really try to be open-minded, so if you've had unusual sexual experiences or relationships, I'm still open to hearing about them (but I do mean experiences, not fantasies you'd like to convince me are true). Alternatively, if there are things you think you'd enjoy but haven't had the chance to do yet, I'd be interested in hearing about those as well.
It would be nice if you included your age and gender, and ideally also location in your first message. And please use the reddit chat instead of direct messages if you write to me!