Knowing the person I'm chatting with and them wanting to know me well is integral to sexuality for me. I hate to generalize but it seems like the platform is full of a particular pool of people whose values are actual TURN OFFS for me (anti-work/severe sensitivities/misogyny/self-pitying personalities).
It's sssooo hot to have my energy matched (even better to be exceeded). The root of my kinks all involve me being bested and/or the other person earning my submission. It sounds narcissistic but it's hard to feel submissive once I learn that I outperform a man in every aspect of life?
I know this probably isn't the place for what I'm looking for💀...but irl I'm very avoidant of sexual encounters and chatting lets me feel connected with people.
Complaints aside (im sorry🥲), I'm a huge perfectionist/go-getter type person and love playing the big-ego-cocky-brat role. I love being out-performed even more. I really love the psychological sides of sexuality...knowing the whys of things and this segways into a kink for mind-games (via hypnosis, coercion, corruption, etc.) I love orgasm denial/ruined orgasms/edging/teasing. I ALWAYS get my way so the mind fuck of being told no is amazing.
I also really love back and forth banter a lot...in fact this may be one of my favorite things about a given interaction.
Anyway, if you read all that and our interested in talking send me a message:)
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