I'm 5'7. Average build. Broad shoulders, little overweight. Brown. Attractive, at least I've been told. Very blunt in terms of speaking and personality. Prefer having control. Keeping someone tied up. Letting out some sadistic tendencies. Spanking, restraining, cnc, breathplay. Breaking someone down emotionally and physically, making them cry. Making them orgasm over and over and generally making someone scream they want more. Then ending with them melting into my safe arms. Cuddles and aftercare go together well.
In terms of interests, I'm a bit of an introvert. So gaming, YouTube, books. I also enjoy long walks, taking in art shows and visiting local market stalls every month or so to see what's new and interesting. I prefer to experience something quiet and visually stimulating rather than loud and bombastic. Finally, I think it's important to laugh and have fun no matter who you're with.
My approach to BDSM is organic and structured. I talk to the other person, find out what makes them tick and take them on a journey through pain and pleasure. Sometimes I fuck with the body, sometimes the mind.
Not interested in a relationship per se. More just an arrangement. I don't mind being friends, it's ok to be attached and like each other but it's not essential.
Anytime either one of us needs stress relief we can give each other a call and fulfil the other persons needs. We can get along or not. Be friends or not. Have shared interests or not. I don't mind either ways. It doesn't have to a lifelong arrangement, just something to help feel human again whenever we need it.
I don't mind age or experience, just be open and eager.
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