I'm what you'd call a longtime lurker on Reddit. I've tried a couple posts when I'm lonely and drunk, but just like most of the other men who post, I never expected a real reply.
Tbh, I don't know what I'm doing on here. I'm married. I have a good life. And yet. My libido is just in a different stratosphere than my wife's. A classic tale. We've talked about it. She makes an effort and I'm too nice to push it when she invariably stops trying as hard.
So I've turned to Tumblr and Reddit. They provide more community than just a porn site. I get to glimpse other real people's lives. I get to feel comfortable seeing other people talking about and experiencing the kinks I have. I don't feel ashamed anymore because I know there are thousands others out there.
Would I ever cheat? Maybe? Emotionally I feel like I have already. My browsing history will tell you I want to lol. I obviously want to be having more sex. Masturbating does a good job but god I want to be with anyone who will let me please them. And reciprocate. And listen to my fantasies and share theirs. Even if it's just online, connection on a sexual, open level would excite me beyond words.
Anyway, message me if chatting or sexting sounds fine to you. If you've read this far, then you're already proving you're different. My name is Ben, btw. I live in Oregon. 6 feet, 170. I'm an avid runner and cyclist. Even if you aren't looking for anything, if you've read all this, give me an upvote or shoot me a DM 🙂
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