I'm looking for a fling, FWB, or anyone who wants to share sexual experiences. For me, this isn't so simple - I have a physical disability, I'm in a power wheelchair, and most of my muscles are weak, but I have normal sensation everywhere. Many people might be intimidated by that when it comes to casual sex. Maybe people would think disability implies something difficult when what they really want is something that feels good while also being low stress. But disability and sex does not need to be seen that way. There are disabled people like me who are very sex positive, want those liberating sexual experiences, yet have difficulty finding a partner whether that is due to social perception or something else. Being forthright about my desires is probably the best thing I can do.

Physical limitation, though, does not mean that the pleasure of sex is any less; it doesn't make my sexual desires any less. The pleasure of my partner doesn't need to be any less either. Throughout my entire life, I have had to be creative about adapting to disability, adapting to my differences. My mind aims at creativity even in my career. I creative attitude applies to sex just as much. With my limited sexual experience, making things work might take a few minutes of thought, but once we figure it out, the sex is always great. Sure, having sex with me looks different than with able-bodied people. But it's an empowering experience. Pillows help for different positions; sex in a wheelchair is really fun because it's so different; girls I've been with are usually on top and seemed to be really at ease with it. Don't forget there are really fun things to try with oral positions and wheelchairs. Or at least, there are fun things I can teach you!

For a while, I've been sexually starved. Not from lack of trying, or lack of interest. I don't need a romantic relationship, or anything serious here. What I want right now is someone to be sexual with, to explore sexuality with me, to be ready and willing to try sex differently. Even the simplicity of touch is important to me, since I can't reach out and touch the world with my own effort. I enjoy the feedback of feeling another person. Despite all those difficulties, basically, I'm just looking for something straightforward and sexual. I hope to show that it sex with the disabled guy doesn't need to be intimidating, and an FWB is totally realistic.

I don't care where you're located, although anywhere in the US is easier. New Jersey even easier. But I'm pumped up enough about this to work out something with transportation. I want to make it work. I don't care about experience level, or appearance, or gender identity very much. What counts is if you also want a FWB, and are curious to try things with me. Sex is a great experience, and I want to be able to explore it again. If you have any interest or curiosity, please send me a message!