Orgasm control has been a cornerstone of my D/s dynamics for more than a decade now in one way or another and its probably the thing that I have the most skill and talent in (with both kinds of genitals). However, I bend my style to fit my subs just right and its been a long time now since Ive been able to really go deep with someone on the same wave length with me when it comes to exploring the limits of desire and denial and leveraging that to push your submissive tendencies and thats what I'm looking for right now.

Seeking a sub for genuine connection, fun banter, and a healthy helping of kink and control.

I'm deeply nerdy yet outdoorsy and I like to get nerdy about outdoorsy things. This year I learned how to find/identify/cook wild mushrooms and plants. Im a big time movie/video game snob especially horror movies. I've been a Dominant for a decade now and I got pretty good at it. I have lots of practice doing Risk Aware Consensual Kink including long term IRL subs and my fair share of more casual play. I have a lot of the usual kinks and even more weirder ones! haha. I dont like age play but a lot of people have told me my "style" kind of Daddy Dom-ish or nurturing. Im not a miracle worker but one of my favorite things about flexing the things ive learned over the years is being a positive influence for my partners whatever that might mean for us.

I may be the head of our partnership but you're my neck and you point me in the right direction. What we do will be based pretty much entirely on the things YOU like or dont like or want to experience. That being said im sure you are wondering so some of my main areas of experience or things I might consider "specialties" off the top of my head include orgasm control/denial(including forced orgasms and orgasm torture), rope bondage, orders and assignments, control of your behavior and/or appearance, (SAFE!) public play/humiliation from totally discrete to overt, breast bondage/torture, chastity, hole training and much more.