I'll start with a bit about myself. I'm 20 years old, I come from Manchester, England, but I'm in New York studying. I'm not 100% against meeting people off here, but if that's what you're absolutely looking for, I'm probably not right for you.
My main intention here is really, quite simply, to have an honest discussion about sexual experiences and preferences. You just can't have that kind of openness with a person face-to-face unless you know each other quite well, if at all, and I'm just interested in hearing others' perspectives on the matter without the usual social hindrances to honesty. I'll say that I have a fair amount of experience (though I may often come across more of the quiet and shy type), and, to be completely honest, I'm not interested in using reddit to substitute for a lack of real-life excitement. Ideally, I'm looking for someone who isn't in that situation either. Really, I'm looking for the kind of interesting conversation that's only possible with strangers.
Since I know it'll matter to a lot of people: I'm about 5'6, fit, with blonde brown hair and blue eyes. I'm fine with any physical appearance, age, and gender, but I ask that you be capable of writing coherently, and open enough to have interesting conversation. Hopefully you'll find me interesting as well! Ideally, I would also hope that you have a certain amount of sexual experience, or it might be difficult for us to get very far in a conversation on the topic.
As a starter, here's random thing that's been on my mind recently: does tickling ever play a role in your interactions with short or long term partners, or even prospective partners? I don't mean sensual, erotic tickling, I mean more of a laughter, all-out tickling. I ask because it's played a role in a few of my relationships, and it's one of the strangest mixtures between affection and aggression. In a way, I think it's often used as a kind of an affirmation of or challenge to an implicit hierarchy between two people. Do you ever do it or get it done to you? Anyway, that's an example of the hidden dynamics of intimate relationships that I find so interesting. I guess that's also because I'm submissive by nature. Of course, I'm also open to discussing sex itself and the cruder side of things, but hopefully as part of a broader discussion. One more thing: I really try to be open-minded, so if you've had unusual sexual experiences or relationships, I'm still open to hearing about them.
It would be nice if you included your age and gender, and ideally also location in your first message. And please use the reddit chat instead of direct messages if you write to me!