To be clear, I'm not saying my life is completely fucked up or anything, not at all. What I'm saying is that I could stand to be more organized, and I should probably do something about the jungle growing in my front yard, and yes I need to empty the dishwasher, I know I shouldn't be browsing reddit for more than a half hour when I go to the bathroom.

All I'm saying is that my life is a little disorganized, and not as productive as it could be, I'll be honest. I just tend to take the relaxed view when it comes to life, experience it, live it, take things as they come. What I mean to say is that I'm not a type A personality not in the least.

The reason I'm writing this is that I've just been talking to people who's lives are completely on point, they have a plan, they know what they want, they are actively, and aggressively pursuing it. That's not who I am, I want a submissive who works at starbucks and who smokes weed and plays video games, who just enjoys life.

I want a slacker, I don't care if your car sucks, or that phone isn't the latest and newest, or that you have student loan debt, and don't have a plan to pay it off within the next year. I don't care that you don't have everything figured out, because I sure as fuck don't.

You probably thinking how the hell can you be a Dominant, well I'll tell you because life is about moments. I can absolutely be disciplined, firm, and responsible, just not 100 percent of the time. I'm confident, and comfortable with myself to know this. I have absolutely no problem controlling, conditioning, molding who's mine.

With that said I'm going to talk about specific kinks that I enjoy, to give you an idea of what I'm about, and to see if maybe our interests coincide.

Degradation I enjoy it, it really excites me I love having someone who feels safe, and secure within our dynamic who I can just say the most foul, and fucked up things to.

Pain but not for me, fuck that I'm not putting the clothespins on my nipples, or the gag in my mouth. But my hope is that you will.

Humiliation in the context of sexual play, I won't message you and tell you that your left titty is fucked up. No it's about being in that play state, and pushing you to your limit and you wearing a unicorn mask.

Bondage this can be restraints, rope harnesses, anything that restricts you in some manner. Could be full and complete tied to the bed, or just wearing a harness under your clothes.

Public play I don't what it is about putting my submissive in sexually precarious situations that excites me but it does. The naked pizza man thing, being stuffed with sex toys at work, or driving with your breasts out. That stuff just pushes my buttons, and by buttons I mean penis.

These are just some of the kinks I'm into, I'm not so much into limits, I understand we have them, and that they are a part of the lifestyle. But I like for my submissive to be open, to at least be willing to try things outside her comfort zone. If we try something and you don't like it completely fine, but it's important that you do try.

I want to say thanks for reading, I think like everyone else here, I'm just trying to make a meaningful connection with someone, if I've made you smile, or chuckle shoot me a message, what do you have left to loose.