Hi r4r, hope you're having a good start to your long weekend! I find myself staring down the barrel of a boring 3 day weekend, and was thinking about getting back into something I haven't done in a long time.

A little background: I am 31 years old and transgender. Experiences obviously vary, but I've honestly found it very difficult to manage a healthy sex life. Part of this is just that I don't particularly enjoy opening up to others about my background, and part of it is just that I was (and am) hyper-focused on my career. I work 80-90 hours a week as a management consultant and so if you're not already in a committed relationship, then the only other option is casual hookups while on the road, which obviously is not really feasible if you're trans.

So, that leads me to what I'm looking for: essentially, I'd love to have a long-term casual chat partner with whom to discuss sex, sexual interests, and non-sexual topics on an ongoing basis. I'm a decent conversationalist (although my workdays are quite busy, you can generally expect me to be available during the early mornings/late evenings, as well as sporadically throughout the day) with a range of interests beyond sex--I play an instrument, I read, I garden, I cook, I weightlift and play casual competitive sports, time and travel schedule permitting. Also, I'm happy to talk about work-related things as well-- I spend my time leading diligences in a certain sector, for those who are also working in the consulting/finance industry.

In my day-to-day life I present myself as highly masculine, but sexually I'm actually submissive. I have a range of kinkier interests, including: bondage, humiliation/degradation, some pain, stretching/insertions/fisting, and some others I'm happy to discuss privately. Hard limits include: anything illegal, anything unsanitary, bimboplay, and ageplay. There are probably others on the hard limits list too but they're not coming to mind because they're niche, so in the unlikely event it comes up I'll let you know it's unfortunately not of interest to me.

I should also caveat that consent is extremely important to me along with safe words, and also: I am VERY politically liberal and although I may enjoy dabbling in things that may seem misogynistic, they are purely confined to the bedroom and are part of roleplay, not representative of my actual views (and I would not be interested in being involved with someone who actually holds those views).

This is getting much longer than I intended, so I'll try to wrap this up pretty quickly with just describing my physical appearance. I am 5'10", caucasian (and quite pale), weight that fluctuates between 180-210 typically depending on where I am in a bulk/cut cycle, short brown hair in a fade, full beard kept to around 1/4-1/2 inch in length and trimmed neatly, blue eyes, and--I cannot stress this enough--an EXTREMELY masculine face. I say this because I have in the past gotten messages from people expecting someone more androgynous in appearance. That is not me; not that we'll be sharing face pics, but in the past I have had people start to talk about how hot they find androgynous FTMs, and I'm never sure what to do with that when people in real life tell me I look like I should be a construction worker. I lift weights regularly as well and am muscular with a bit of fat (because frankly it's too much of a hassle to stay cut year round), and have short to medium length body hair over almost my entire body, that I keep trimmed short or shaved. I have had a mastectomy, but have not had any bottom surgery.

One last thing: I am not interested in this crossing over into my real life, ever. I cannot ever share my face pic, disclose my real identity, etc. I obviously will afford you the exact same treatment as well. This is just for fun and to have a low-key online friend, so if that sounds like something you'd be interested, feel free to shoot me a message or a chat!