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F' it she is leaving, I have custody of the kids and the house and she is paying child support. She has signed a lease and this is not fixable.....I have more than tried because I wanted to be able to get up ever morning and look at myself and my kids and know I tried all I could but it is over....
If you know how unusual that statement you can be you know I have a unique situation.
There is a lot to the story but the short of it is she appears to be neuro-divergent and after marriage counseling she just wants to leave. She said she never intended counseling to help our relationship, just soften the blow. Sex was non existent the past 4 years and she shows no emotions. It is not that it is no emotions for me, it is no emotions for anyone....she never even really connected with the kids. It wasn't that she isn't a good mom or even for the most part a good wife, it is just that there was no depth to her feelings.
This has been going on a while and I know I am heartbroken and I know it will take time to heal. Every day that goes by is a little easier. I know I am strong, have good support and will be ok.
I must admit I am lonely and miss all kinds of female interaction from the emotional to the physical. I did a lot of self searching and I know what I want if and when I am ever ready. I now know what is important to me and I want to know if my expectations are realistic. If you are open to chatting and would love to talk and see how you might measure up I know what I want to ask. In turn I will talk about anything you want to and answer anything you want to ask....seriously anything.
I have worked hard to learn to make myself open and vulnerable. You may find after looking that I am not of interest to, but I will promise you will know what you saw was genuine.
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