Are you a student at Brown University that's looking to occasionally forget about your academic responsibilities and get into subspace?

I'm a sensual Dom that enjoys light bondage and orgasm control who is looking for a local, fairly regular play partner.

I’m not looking to rush into things. Trust, communication, and consent are the foundation of a healthy dynamic, and as a Dom, I take those very seriously. I’m not interested in play until I’ve spent time having vanilla conversations, discussed kinks, expectations, boundaries, limits, goals, etc.

I am very transparent, and have no issues sharing my information (pics, FL account, etc) if it seems we may a good fit. And while we are figuring that out, I will not ask for any of your personal information (aside from some form of verification, more information at the end of this post), so if at any point you are uncomfortable you can just ghost.

I am not looking for a sugar dynamic, but I'm completely down for occasionally going out for a (fancy?) dinner, etc.

I am DDF, and will provide current test results (and expect the same).

I am close to Brown University, and can host.

I don't expect constant communication.

Me:

• Laid-back, empathetic, patient, and self-aware.
• Demisexual/sapiosexual/noetisexual.
• Main kinks: bondage, orgasm control, light impact play - Current kinklist
• RACK, always with a safeword (and stoplights for check-ins).
• Aftercare is just as, if not more, important than play.
• 420-friendly (but rarely smoke).
• Involved in the local kink community.
• Progressive, vocal LGBTQ /BLM ally, feminist.
• Excellent cuddler.
• 6’, HWP, pretty average looking (?), minor dad-bod (not a gym rat).

You:

• Smart, independent, confident - I am not scared of strong, badass women, they are sexy AF.
• 18 , but since this post is looking for university students, it's important that you are responsible and mature for whatever age you are.
• Practices self-care.
• Experience with kink/BDSM isn't important. If you aren't experienced, or don't know what you want, we can figure that out.

If what I’ve written interests you, let me know what your favorite color is in your response - otherwise, I’ll assume you’re selling something.

If you do reach out, I generally like to have vanilla/kink conversations for a few weeks before we move to the next step (whatever that is, it’s up to you). I generally let whoever responds to my posts choose the speed we go at, and what platforms we use. Want to stay on Reddit? Totally fine. Move to Discord? Cool. Up to you. I will keep my end of the conversation going, and I won't ghost you.

I'm not going to be a perv, and I don’t request/accept nudes.

I don’t need to know your real name, where you live, what you do, etc. Honestly, try me.

I take safety seriously, and I want you to feel like you can bail if you aren’t comfortable, no questions asked.

But - and I really don’t like having to do this - if we click, I’m going to ask for verification early on. I won’t ask for anything identifiable (pictures with your face, etc.), but I will ask for a pic of you holding something with your screenname/date on it. I’ve had too many conversations with people claiming to be somebody they aren’t, and after a week of having great conversations I ask for a verification pic, and poof they are gone. That's the only time I'll ask for any type of photo.