I am a senior quality engineer who enjoys playing his guitar going to the gym a good story and yes gaming. I love renaissance festivals, axe throwing, amateur broadcast and content creation. I enjoy activities and I'm taking up archery with the buddy and hitting the gym on the regular. I'd like to be able to share vanilla hobbies with my partner.

I am finally at a point in my life everything seems to be coming together and I am now hoping to find the right woman to share that life with.

So I have been in Kink for about 3 years now. During that time I have primarily been the Dom I had the opportunity to Dom a switch for a while and she and I switched a few times.. Honestly it was insanely hot.

I enjoyed doing things simply for her pleasure. Such as worshiping her feet naked not allowed to touch myself during her online classes. I loved being spanked just so she could get some frustration out from school. I loved her JOI and the limited chastity play. I loved that when she was in charge I couldn't orgasm without pain. Being denied clothes in her presence. Wearing a remote plug She controlled while driving her to buy her ice cream. Honestly doing things simply for her pleasure gratification and amusement was quite enjoyable.

And when she told me about playing with another Dom over thanksgiving who just gave her a far more brutal and sadistic tease and denial than I typically do. I had this sunken feeling but then realized I sort of liked it... Like a lot and simply ask for more details and reassured that I was happy she had fun.

This was only over a few instances of switching. But it has preoccupied my thoughts quite a lot so if there's any Domme/Mistress who yould like to take a chance on a relatively well put together man seeing if he was meant to be the sub rather than the Dom. Please send me a message.