Hi,

I'm aware that this ad is a lot, But I'm just putting this out into the universe and seeing what manifests.

Before I go ahead, I'll put a trigger warning here that I'll potentially be mentioning pretty full on kinks that aren't for everyone. For those interested or curious, please read on.

A bit about me: I'm a bit of an introverted extrovert. I really enjoy my own company, although I'm a bit over it since spending the last two years isolating. When I do have time to myself, I enjoy reading, playing the occasional game, or doing my very nerdy hobby that is too hard to explain here. But I also absolutely love going out on road trips, seeing movies, checking out exhibitions, going to the beach (just took up surfing), and I do enjoy clubbing/dancing now and then. I think I'm a pretty interesting and fun person to be around, and I'd love to share that side of myself with someone. I am also extremely perceptive and intuitive so I'll usually know if you're feeling off before you do, and I'm an excellent listener. I am also extremely honest.

Age, Race and body-type are not big factors for me (although I do have an age-gap kink). I am more interested in the connection and enthusiasm over mutual interests. If you have a pretty face I'm probably going to be into you regardless of your body type. Having said that, it would be great if you did have an ongoing minimal commitment to your physical health, as I would enjoy having a partner I can go on hikes or do other physical activities with.

Ideally you'd be intelligent, passionate, open minded and extremely non-judgmental, and a good sense of fun and can laugh at yourself. Ideally you have some passing interest in nerdy stuff, but have interests outside those and haven't made it your identity.

I am open to people in poly/open relationships, so long as my emotional needs are being met, but I think I would prefer something monogamous to begin with while we get to know each other. My only non-negotiables are that you have good emotional maturity, are a good communicator, honest, and respectful. Oh, and that you don't want kids because they're not on my agenda (I love kids, and would be open to adoption or fostering. Just don't want any of my own. No child haters please).

Sexually, I have no limits (I'm not kidding) when it comes to fantasy/role play, and only a few limits when it comes to real-life play. I am extremely respectful of boundaries (if it's not fun for both of us, it's not fun for me), and there would also be a very strong understanding that just because we talk or fantasise about something, it doesn't necessarily mean we want to do it irl. I think that's important to establish that right from the beginning to make a safe space to be fully open about what gets us off.

A list of things I'm into includes, but it is not limted to: age play, CNC, abuse, incest fantasies, bodily fluids, violence and sadism both sexual and non-sexual, humiliation/degredation, misogynistic porn and fantasies, anything anal related, free use, and more that I believe go against Fetlife's Ts&Cs. Happy to talk about them in private. I've been very dominant in most previous relationships, but am also open to something more egalitarian. A partner in crime perhaps. My limits are only really dictated by my partner's limits. You don't have to be into all of the above btw. Part of what I enjoy is discovering the sexual Venn diagram between myself and a partner. I also like to offset some of the craziness with gentleness. I give an amazing sensual massage, if that's your thing. I also LOVE rimming. I would eat your ass for hours if you let me. Not even kidding. I also love passionate vanilla sex.

I also know these are quite full-on fantasies and kinks, which involve a lot of trust, so ideally I'm looking for someone interested in a long term relationship as well so we can build up trust and also support and enjoy each other's company outside of the bedroom.

There is so much more to say, but I'll leave some things to discover in person. Oh one more thing: I'm recovering from a sex related injury which means I can't masturbate or have sex until at least September! The positive side of that is that it will give us plenty of opportunity to get to know each other first.

I'm located in Geelong, but I travel to Melbourne regularly, and would probably eventually relocate to Melbourne if I had a partner there.

Shoot me a message if any of this appeals, and happy to share photos in private. Look forward to talking to you!