Today I worked from home and have been here the whole time. It has been very boring and unproductive... I would have been better off going to the office instead! (Surprising, right?) Either way, here I am at the end of this boring day looking for a little chat, maybe with some added spice. Will you keep me company?

I'm a foreigner in this exotic land, where I've been living for a few years already. Time zone is UTC 8.

I'd consider myself to be a literate, well spoken and mindful person. I have a job that requires a lot of brain power, but I don't let that be the only thing I exercise. Following the mantra of "healthy mind in healthy body", I do my best to keep in shape through regular exercise and conscious eating habits.

I have a dominant personality, although more on the strict but nurturing side, rather than the sadistic extreme. I have been learning more about myself, and experimenting with less "vanilla" flavors over the last couple of years... thank you lockdowns!(?). For example, I have discovered how my personality fits the DD/lg dynamic and I've had a few nice experiences both online and irl.

Recently I've been particularly interested in shibari/bondage (as a rigger), so I'd be happy to discuss that if it's something that you like too! I'm currently going through a popular book on the subject. Unfortunately, I don't always have the chance to practice with another human... so the legs of my desk are getting a lot of action lately!

Among other things I'm particularly fond of oral sex, both giving and receiving... like I really enjoy giving it. In turn, I'd say that the feedback is generally quite positive on the receiving end! I know this is gonna make me sound super nerdy... but I've actually learned a lot from reading a book hehe

Playing on r/dirtypenpals has had a great part in this journey of self discovery. So, I'd be happy to do some RP-ing too if that's what you like. I have some prompts that I posted in the past on my profile, but I'd be open to discuss any other scenario you might have in mind.

Apart from these spicy details, I have a lot of other interests. Among them are photography, books, cooking and occasional video games (when time allows!).

I'm looking for somebody roughly around my age, maybe in the wide range of /- 10 years. Don't want to put too many restrictions, let's just chat and see if our interests fit!

So tell me more about yourself! What spicy thoughts are keeping you from sleeping these days?* What pleasurable experiences do you keep going back to? And what are you looking forward to experiment with in the future? :)

For today, I intend this to be mostly an online thing. Maybe find a friend to have some flirty chats or RP with on the regular on other boring and lonely days. But who knows... maybe we really hit it off!!

*P.S. Bonus points if your first thought was "mala hotpot" haha