Hey, I'm a switch who's into orgasm denial and control as both a Dom and a sub. As a Dom, I really like subs who like to share their emotions. I know lots of Doms like subs who don't question them or complain or anything, but I like a sub who isn't afraid to show how frustrated they are or to beg for what they want even if it's in contrast to what I initially asked of them. Although that doesn't mean I want a sub who isn't obedient, it's more that there is not much hotter than a girl who clearly expresses how badly they want to cum or do something, but are still obedient in the end. I also like subs who like to edge, or constantly be reminded that they are denied, even in public. Stuff like having a sub who's desperate to cum not wear panties under their skirts when they do to the store so they are constantly reminded of how horny they are is really hot to me, so it's also great if you're into a little bit of public play.

As I sub, I like Dom's that like to show off, or are very open with their emotions. Like someone who gets excited by showing off their body and knowing the frustration they are causing a sub who can't cum to it. My sex drive is really high, so orgasm denial is very difficult for me, so what acts as the motivation is keeping myself denied because it turns on my Dom so much, so cold or distant Dom's that don't show their excitement aren't very compatible. As I sub, I enjoy my Dom's pleasure over my own, so a Dom that has good communication and a high sex drive that likes getting off to their subs frustration allows me to stay denied significantly longer

If either of these sound at all like you, please do not hesitate to message me, and we can talk about limits and your kinks and get acquainted! Sorry this was so long, but if you made it this far, I seriously appreciate it, hope you have a great day!