I’m a guy in Minnesota/the Midwest who’s looking to find a real, loving connection with a woman. Specifically, I’m hoping to find someone who will be a match for my desires, my kinks, and my fetishes. I know the chances of finding someone like that here on reddit are slim, but i gotta try, right?

First the vanilla stuff: I’m really big on praise and affection going both ways. Lots of compliments, affirmations, open and honest communication. Physical touch, intimacy, cuddling are all things I can’t get enough of. And just generally being there for each other. If we can respect eachother's needs, boundaries, and identities, and we are attracted to eachother, I’ll be yours completely.

Next are the kinks: I’ve found out that I’m a sub who really has a thing for soft femdom. If you want to be praised, obeyed, worshiped, I want to be the guy to do it. If you want to have someone to be the focus of your love, care, protection, and domination, I want to be that guy. Once we establish consent and limits, you can have me and use me in any way you want. I confess that I don’t have a lot of experience with sexual encounters, but I’m very eager to learn and experiment. Things like bondage, pegging, and maybe more are on the table.

And finally, the fetishes: This is going to come up sooner or later anyway, so I’m putting it out there right now. I really have a thing for transformations and strong women. Stuff like werewolves, She-Hulks, orcs… Any fantasy involving strong, muscular, often monstrous women really gets me going. You don’t have to be a strong woman yourself, just share an appreciation for them. I have a lot of experience doing erotic role play online involving these concepts (this is my alt account, so take a look at my profile if you want to get an idea of what that’s about), but I would love to find someone who shares this fantasy with me in real life.

If you match up on some or all of these interests, please send me a message! Maybe we share some other interests as well, who knows? Of course, I can’t promise we’ll be right for eachother even if we do share all that. People are complicated, you know? But either way I’d love to start talking to you and get to know someone new. If you’re out there, and this somehow reaches you, I can’t wait to hear from you.