Hello. I hope you like reading. I am an experienced Dom looking for a sub to get to know and see where it leads. Like actually getting to know you. Yes you are going to have to answer all the same boring ass questions that we have before hundreds of times. I think knowing each other on a bunch of levels makes for the best dynamic. I am looking for something longer term, from casual to something long term/monogamish. Communication is something I feel I am really good at, yet writing it all down is hard.
I am white, 34 years old, 5’10’’ 210lbs. Dad bod-fit build. Working the dad bod thing off at the moment. Shaved head. Well groomed beard(longer in the winter, shorter in the summer). Healthy, clean with good hygiene and sti/std free with. I am 420 friendly but other than that, no drugs and I rarely drink. I am divorced and a dad. I have a professional career in construction, with a flexible schedule. I am rough around the edges and cuss too much. Pretty easy going and laid back. Love to make you laugh. Very sarcastic with a dark sense of humor and an A-type personality. So, I come off as an asshole sometimes, but try my hardest not to be with people close to me. I might be pretty boring. Other than work I do not do much. I workout 3-5 times a week, take my kids hiking/walking at least once a week. Cook most of my meals. I have been watching a lot of TV the last few months. I like to camp and fish, not much of a hunter really. I started mountain bike riding, so be prepared for me to have bumps and scrapes regularly. I love driving and exploring DFW and the areas around, so I hope you like riding. But most of all I fucking love spending time with my sub. Not just sex and play, though that too. I have a lot of attention to give. I will talk to you all damn day. I will want to know everything you are doing throughout the day. I won’t demand to know or interrogate you about it, I’ll just get all the information while talking and giving attention. Do you know your love language? If physical touch is not your top or second top, I am not for you. I am extremely physical. I hug and kiss and grab and hold and squeeze and have my hands all over you a lot. I am physically dominant. I guess now is a good time to share about that part of me.
I fall under a few categories, I will share my bdsm test results with you. Sadistic, primal and Daddy are the main ones. I am respectful, patient, understanding, possessive, controlling and demanding. But in a good way, if that makes sense. I want to build a good dynamic based on communication and trust. This is very important to me, and it should be to you too. I like to play with you. We can be having normal conversation or doing something mundane and I will do something or say something to put you in subspace. Then I’ll go back to normal mundane stuff. I have a lot of kinks, I am open minded and love to explore. Sharing the experience together with my sub is what is most important to me. My main kinks include CNC, Dd/lg, bondage, impact play, orgasm control, rope, breeding, anal, oral/face fucking, leaving marks(Nothing permanant), choking, fucking biting, manhandling, restraining, grabbing hard enough to bruise/mark, hair pulling, dressing you up. Lately I am becoming a bit of an exhibitionist and like showing off, so it would be cool if you were too. I also have a very high libido and “relentlessly brutal stamina”. Yes I will try to get you to safeword from fucking you until you are too sore. I will find out how much you will and can endure for me. I will leave you a sweaty beaten cum-filled mess. Then I will cuddle you until you get back to level. Aftercare!! I need it, even if you do not. I am a cuddly mother fucker and that is my favorite kind of aftercare.
You should be a women and submissive. I do not mind if you are straight or bi. Age really is not a huge concern to me as long we get along and have some things in common. Healthy with good hygiene and sti/std free, preferably with proof. I like size difference, so being tiny would be amazing, but ideally you are a bit shorter and smaller than I am. I prefer thin to thick(thiccc?). Race or religion is not a concern to me. Being local to DFW and meeting is a must. I live on the Fort Worth side but work in Dallas so any where in DFW. I do not want online. Please be serious about wanting to meet, after talking for a bit of course. Liking the outdoors, cuddling on the couch, cooking together would be awesome too. Value communication and trust. I was going to make a separate paragraph for your submissive preferences, but I do not think its necessary. As long as none of my kinks and likes are deal breakers for you, I think we will be good.
I am sure this is getting long enough. If any of this piques your interests at all and you are serious about getting to know each other, send me a message.
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