Hey. I'm a 31-year-old aspie guy from Denmark. Pervy, nerdy, pretty well hung. I have a hard time phrasing what I'm looking for, so excuse me if I go about it in a roundabout way.
I'm kind of a naturally submissive guy. I have some trouble with structuring and decision making (which I attribute to my Asperger's), so it relaxes me to be submissive and have someone else be in charge for a bit. I'm not necessarily submissive because I want to be quickly used and degraded. So, if you're looking for that, that ain't me.
So, what am I looking for? Dunno; I'm lonely. I guess I'm looking for a strong personality I can lean into, be a bit submissive with. Do some online talking, cuddling, perhaps being naughty. The world can get a bit overwhelming, so I like to retreat to a safe, strong person when things get too much. Ideally with rules; rules makes life simpler when I'm overwhelmed... Think a Mommy/Daddy dynamic, only, without the age implications.
I get easily attached, so if I like you, I'd like something that can go on somewhat long term. I realize that everything crumbles, but I'm looking for more than just a single day. :) Someone I can return to, form a bond with.
I try to be genuine and open. You can ask me anything, no matter how inappropriate. I prefer those kinds of relationships, as it's less stressful than trying to figure out what is appropriate in the moment. Also, it's kinda exciting to be asked those sorts of things, you know?
If that sounds interesting, hit me up, yeah? I'll try to reply to everyone. I apologize in advance if I'm slow to reply; I can get overwhelmed a bit easily sometimes. I'll get to it eventually, even if it takes me a while.
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