This is a niche as hell request, but I'm looking for an older woman. Preferably someone who is unmarried, or recently divorced.

Why?

• I've wanted to be with an older woman for a while, and now I'm single I'd like to explore this taste. You can ask me why specifically an older woman when we chat.
• After getting out of one and recovering, I'm not ready to have a long term relationship yet...but I also don't want to just have a string of short-term partners. I want someone I can become friends with, someone I can be intimate with, but who is on the same page as me.
• What page is that? That this will be something that is just a bridge while we build up our self-esteem, get our lives to the places where we're ready to finally date for a long term partner.
• That we both like sex. Lots of it. But we prefer quality of a sexual partner over the quantity of our sexual partners.
• That we're okay with us dating other people, and talking about it, while we're carrying on this relationship. We won't get jealous, because we know this is a medium temporary thing.
• Because I want to meet someone who's had a bit of life experience, and picked up some wisdom along the way. Someone who's comfortable being themself. Someone who, despite if things go shitty, tries their best to treat other people with mutual respect and kindness. Someone who's empathetic as they know life can be shitty, but it doesn't mean we should be assholes to others if we can help it.
• Because I can't host at the moment, as I'm saving up to move out, and you probably won't have a problem with that as you know what's important and what isn't.
• You probably are comfortable with uncomfortable conversations. You know what you like in the bedroom, and you're willing to help guide me there. I have some kinks I want to explore, and you'll be comfortable telling me whether you're up for it or not.
• You're comfortable with the fact this is my alt reddit account purely for sexytimes, so my reddit history is literally only sex related, but willing to share my main reddit account if you want to stalk me online for a bit before we meet.
• You understand I'm a work in progress. Not some guy who holds all the answers to all your problems.

About me - I was a writer, now my profession involves both words and data. It's pretty cool. I'm mixed race, 5'6, got an afro, and a deep voice many people compliment me on. I'm intellectually curious, so my tastes can change like the seasons. I'm always reading. Sci-fi and fantasy are my go-to's but my non-fiction can change from economics to psychology, to self-help when I'm dealing with some shit. I can speak beginner Italian and I'm taking some classes the next 3 months.

My kinks - I like roleplaying with submissive ladies, but I want to try something in real life. Facefucking and choking are things I want to explore. I'm weird, and have an incest roleplay kink, but never anything in real life. But I'm willing to admit how fucked up my sexual tastes are in a post. You might be turned off by this, and that's fine, I'm looking for someone who's willing to admit they are a bit weird and fucked up.

This is a niche as hell request, so if you think you fit the bill, get in touch.