As the name suggests I’m a bisexual/pansexual switch looking for some fun during the last stretch of the summer. I’m geared towards consistent FWB/on-call situation since I have a fair share of free time than a one off. I am leaning towards cis men just because I don’t fuck as many but welcome to all.
Me: Black—-dark skinned. Darker than the pictures attached and on my profile show. ( Please don’t fetishize me about it, not into that. ) Flirt between 5’7-5’8. Petite and Toned. Perky A’s, ( which I love to have fondled by the way ) been complimented on nipples on more than one occasion. Been told I have a nice ass. Trimmed not shaved. Have a large clit that is extremely sensitive but honestly pretty sensitive all around. In college. Swing more alternative so if you want a goth girl this is your chance. Not as intense as this ad might lead you to think, just frustrated and needy for an outlet for my sluttiness. Less R rated interests included: trying out new food spots. periodically reverting my emo phase at emo nights. boutique TV mainly Thrillers/Sci-Fi/Horror. Listening to far too many Podcasts. Painting. Creative Writing. Filmmaking. And dank ass memes.
If you are submissive: could say I’m mainly looking for a boytoy ( or fucktoy ) to a sink my teeth into. Be warned I can be selfish and sadistic domme, I’m not looking to kindly fulfill your fantasies but use you as an outlet for my own.
Related kinks ( though note a lot of my kinks overlap regardless of my role ): Oral Fixation, Face smothering, Pegging, Impact Play, Rough Sex ( Chocking, Spitting, Slapping, Scratching ) Goddess Worship, Female Supremacy, Objectification, Degradation, Praise, Non-Humiliation Based Feminization, Gender Play in general, Voyuerism, Orgasm Torture ( both denial and overstimulation ) Bondage, Cuckhold, Trampling, Roleplay
If you are dominant: looking to be completely degraded and made into a crying mess. Love the idea of being treated like a whore. Someone who can end up sobbing a bit if you make me cum hard enough. Comfortable doing tasks and whatnot if negotiated beforehand.
Kinks: Anal, Rough Sex, DD/LG Edging, Impact Play, Objectification ( big fan of dollification specifically ), Degradation, Humiliation, Exhibitionism, Roleplay, Overstimulation, CNC
Limits: Race play of any kink, Scat, Real Blood, Creampies
If not apparent into D/S and BDSM. We don’t have to firmly be one another dom(me) or submissives though it would be nice.
Know these are a lot of rather intense kinks but have no intention of doing everything all at once. Would like to gradually build up intensity with partners and always respectful of boundaries and preferences. —
Please attach a picture, of your face to ensure mutual attraction. Ones with face pictures will get priority over the ones without. —- To ensure mutual comfort meeting in person I prefer to transition from online to in person and prefer to chat for a bit before meeting in person to get to know one another better and make sure you aren’t a serial killer lol ( and avoid the awkwardness of meeting in person and having no chemistry and similar interests. )
I am more than comfortable verifying with a photo and would actually prefer to video chat before meeting in person to get a better sense of one another. Afterwards, we can meet up for an non-sexual first meeting like the cliche coffee shop date ( please don’t expect sex on the first meeting though it could happen that meeting goes well ) and then start fucking around afterwards.
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Transparency
In a long term ethically non-monogamous relationship as well as having a more casual girlfriend. Those two relationships take priority and not really looking to have another one. Comfortable with going on dates and everything but not really looking to be anyone’s girlfriend out of this, just trying to have an outlet for these lustful urges.
*Seemingly random but I’m a black girl who likes to change my hair a lot. I often wear wigs or protective styles, promise I’m the same gal. Just came up before and thought to mention. I also wear glasses in person.
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Non-Negotiables
Be able to host because I can’t. I’m based in the Bronx. I typically Uber so be a responsible distance though if you drive or willing to cover the Uber have no problems going wherever and honestly boosts the likeliness of us hooking up consistently.
I will ONLY have safe protected sex. I will only have sex with condoms, no if and buts. Like I will bring condoms of my own, on the chance you don’t have them and honestly if comfortable with dental damns could bring those too. Like the use of gloves but honestly that is more my not so subtle medical kink than anything else.
I’m disease free. I get tested regularly meaning typically every three months or every time I have a new sexual partner. Expect the same energy towards getting tested from my partner.
I only do anal. I have never done extensive penetrative vaginal play and don’t want to right now. If you want to stick it inside a cunt, find another person with one. If we become a consistent thing and I independently explore it, maybe we then can explore it together but right now not about that life.
— Superficial Preferences
More inclined to people within my age range to like 29. Open to to older people as well but just letting you know my preference ( though if older cool working that into play )
Have no racial preferences.
I prefer average dicks. I’m not a size queen and realistically can’t handle more than 7 inches really.
Prefer dudes my height or shorter but like ladies who are taller than me. I tend to prefer bigger folks in general in terms of chub.
Sorry for the length of this but hopefully being specific will get me more success because I want to fuck and want to fuck often lol~ 🌹
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